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Yes.. dating is the last area of acceptable racism, class-ism and bigotry.
The dating world proves that people are totally shallow. The shallowness they show in dating is the same shallowness they exercise in all areas of life.
I don't mind the shallowness because I'm shallow myself. Plus I'm good looking so I benefit from people's shallowness. I only wish people would cut the crap and stop saying things like:
"I just want a nice guy with a good job who treats me well". Then reject that guy because he is too short, too fat, not the right race, has tattoos (or doesn't have tattoos), etc. THEN turn around and welcome the guy who is not nice, treats her like dirt and has a terrible job.. BUT he is good looking and tall and white (or whatever race she prefers).
We should probably all just draw names randomly out of a hat to choose the person we are going to sleep with and live with every day.
Oh. Is that how they pick people for jobs and for friendship? Draw out of a hat?
No, those positions are picked based on merit and personality (well, friendship can be shallow too but that is another story).
I just think it's funny that society says you can be as shallow as you want in dating and it's OK, but it does regulate other things.
I mean, why the hell should you have to hire a black person for your company if you don't want to. It's YOUR company (Not saying this is OK, just making the comparison).
Oh. Is that how they pick people for jobs and for friendship? Draw out of a hat?
No, those positions are picked based on merit and personality (well, friendship can be shallow too but that is another story).
I just think it's funny that society says you can be as shallow as you want in dating and it's OK, but it does regulate other things.
I mean, why the hell should you have to hire a black person for your company if you don't want to. It's YOUR company (Not saying this is OK, just making the comparison).
We get it. You're bitter. You think women only care about looks.
Let me ask you this - when someone hires someone for a job - do they have to want to sleep with them? When you are becoming friends with them - is lust a must?
Choosing someone to be romantic with is not the same thing as hiring someone or making a friend. You are never going to be able to convince people to want to sleep with people they don't want to sleep with just because you are bitter about your love life. It just doesn't work that way.
Oh. Is that how they pick people for jobs and for friendship? Draw out of a hat?
No, those positions are picked based on merit and personality (well, friendship can be shallow too but that is another story).
I just think it's funny that society says you can be as shallow as you want in dating and it's OK, but it does regulate other things.
I mean, why the hell should you have to hire a black person for your company if you don't want to. It's YOUR company (Not saying this is OK, just making the comparison).
The main reason shallowness is acceptable in dating is because no one can do anything about it. Dating only effects you and one other person. Not the case with corporations and Government and laws.
No one can "make" an individual date someone they don't want to date (unless you live in India). Therefore, that person is free to date whoever they want. Also.. no one is going to attack someone for dating inside their own race.
I personally don't care about race. I care more about class, age and beauty. Its very important that a woman is good looking no matter what race she is. She needs to look good or I will totally ignore her.
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