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Old 12-16-2013, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Op, personally, I think you sound sweet.

Try online dating, you have nothing to lose.

=)

take care and smile more =)
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Old 12-16-2013, 03:05 PM
 
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Op, personally, I think you sound sweet.

Try online dating, you have nothing to lose.

=)

take care and smile more =)
He already has tried online dating. At least Ruth 4 Truth's advice gets him even more out in the real world even if he doesn't meet a significant other.

The internet is poison for the mind in many contexts, including online dating --- at least for some people.
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Old 12-16-2013, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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He already has tried online dating. AT least Ruth 4 Truth's advice gets him out in the real world even if he doesn't meet a significant other.
sigh. If that is the case, then good luck op.
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Old 12-16-2013, 03:07 PM
 
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Getting sacked by divorce lawyers and or psychopath spouses.
Ah. That makes sense. I thought he was implying that getting rejected can ruin your life.
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Old 12-16-2013, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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I thought about the OP's position a little more.

You're going to have to do something to put yourself out there if you want to meet someone. You're obviously not some super hot guy that has girls hanging off you, that's fine, all that means is you actually need to do something to seek them out. So I'd say put yourself in more situations where you can meet more women and make moves on them. Some people might disagree with this but I say you're best off hitting on them from the start and either getting a date or moving on.
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Old 12-16-2013, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Op, have you tried volunteer works? (animal shelter, children's hospital) You can meet women your age that way.
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Old 12-16-2013, 09:54 PM
 
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He already has tried online dating. At least Ruth 4 Truth's advice gets him even more out in the real world even if he doesn't meet a significant other.

Guys I'm not some social reject. I go out and socialize all the time in many different environments. I have a couple dozen good friends
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Old 12-16-2013, 10:00 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Guys I'm not some social reject. I go out and socialize all the time in many different environments. I have a couple dozen good friends
You keep posting this under your more than half-dozen pseudonyms, but your socializing isn't doing you any good as far as finding someone to date is concerned. Isn't that why you started this thread? You said in bold headline, "I Honestly Don't KNow How I Am Ever Going To Meet Someone".
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Old 12-16-2013, 10:02 PM
 
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You keep posting this under your more than half-dozen pseudonyms, but your socializing isn't doing you any good as far as finding someone to date is concerned. Isn't that why you started this thread? You said in bold headline, "I Honestly Don't KNow How I Am Ever Going To Meet Someone".
You didn't read this part - "At least Ruth 4 Truth's advice gets him even more out in the real world even if he doesn't meet a significant other." ?


That sure makes it sound like I'm a social reject or a social recluse of some sort, do you not agree?
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Old 12-16-2013, 10:13 PM
 
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You didn't read this part - "At least Ruth 4 Truth's advice gets him even more out in the real world even if he doesn't meet a significant other." ?


That sure makes it sound like I'm a social reject or a social recluse of some sort, do you not agree?
hmm.... I didn't read it that way the first time, but I see what you mean. I still think the poster probably meant more along the lines of: these suggestions to join activity groups (etc.) will get you into environments where there are single women. You need to figure out where your target environments are.

You're Armenian, right? This may sound lame, but it's popular with some people. There are LOTS of young women who go to folk dancing nights. Every city usually has one weekly venue that has East European folk dancing. I would have suggested salsa or swing dancing, but sometimes those can be a slightly older crowd. Folk dancing gets all ages, including teens and 20-somethings. Don't give me a hard time, I'm ONLY trying to think of target-rich environments for you.
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