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ok , id prefer if this question could be addressed without prejudice to my previous threads
ive been on two dates with this girl who ive been in contact with on match.com since the end of October , were having dinner this evening and she was very warm towards the Christmas e card I sent her , it was a jokey one and she is a very funny girl who loves comedy
im staying in a hotel tonite in her home town , I have not told her this and it is not my intention to take her there with me , im picking her up at her moms and will leave her home after dinner
I would be happy to have this girl be my girlfriend but im wondering if its too early , I know some will say that sex needs to happen first but I honest am not in a rush , that said she may view me as a wimp for not wanting sex before asking her to be my girlfriend
perhaps I should go half way and ask her to be exclusive but that sounds kind of formal and unromantic tbh
You don't brotha. Take it slow and either wait until she drops hints that she wants to be yours alone or until she out right tells you so. If she wants you in a relationship, this will happen but not if you push early!
Besides, do not worry too much about putting a label on it. Just take it slow and cool. If there is chemistry and the two of you are enjoying your dates, it will progress to it and be natural when it happens.
Eh. It depends on the connection and individual for me. I've been exclusive very early on in my more serious relationships. However, it was a mutual desire. There have been plenty other dates where exclusivity was certainly NOT on my radar because I didn't feel a connection, nor did I sense true compatibility.
Eh. It depends on the connection and individual for me. I've been exclusive very early on in my more serious relationships. However, it was a mutual desire. There have been plenty other dates where exclusivity was certainly NOT on my radar because I didn't feel a connection, nor did I sense true compatibility.
After two dates? It's not as if they are old friends, they are complete strangers.
When you find out she's sexually compatible with you; that's when you ask
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