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Old 12-29-2013, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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OMG... NO Facebook? Oh the horror....
Great gravy... are you in junior high?

Ditch the drama... lose the pride... and let the guy alone.


AH you beat me to it! lol
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:24 PM
 
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That's disrespect to drop off the face of the earth like that. Give him a mulligan with the caveat...don't let it happen again.
thank you..it is..and no one would really know what its like till it happens to them..!!

i think i just kind of acted defensively when he came back all of a sudden wanting to see me and speak to me lots..
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:25 PM
 
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AH you beat me to it! lol
actually facebook is a major way of contact for people of ALL AGES..so no its not a junior high thing...

his number was disconnected for nine months..he only at the beginning of this month contacted me from a different number..so the only way of contact was actually facebook
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:26 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Are you typing this on your phone? It really is VERY hard to follow.

The guy likes you. Do you like him? If yes, why won't you go out with him?

If you don't like him, leave him alone.
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:29 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Are you dating or friends....? None of this "it's complicated" stuff.
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:29 PM
 
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Are you typing this on your phone? It really is VERY hard to follow.

The guy likes you. Do you like him? If yes, why won't you go out with him?

If you don't like him, leave him alone.
I do.. but here is the thing.. he dropped off the face of the earth..changed his number..and didnt let me know a thing for nine months!!!..

he comes back all of a sudden and wants everything from me..wants to see me and speak to me..but instead of dropping everything for him just as soon as he comes back im trying to show that its not that easy for him to get what he wants after this long...

and he says he understands what he did was wrong and has apologised but doesnt seem to get why im acting this way..and then in turn gets annoyed at me.. and now hes just stopped messaging and calling me altogether..

so I just dont kno what to do now really...
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:30 PM
 
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Are you dating or friends....? None of this "it's complicated" stuff.
we are friends..but he wants more ..its obviously hard to get nothing from him for nearly a year lol..and then for him to come back and imply how he wants to take me out on a date and all of that..
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Where was he for the 9 months???????? Did he ever explain?

And I don't think you REALLY like him. Otherwise, why would you not have gone out by now?
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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we are friends..but he wants more ..its obviously hard to get nothing from him for nearly a year lol..and then for him to come back and imply how he wants to take me out on a date and all of that..
If your friends then act like one. Your acting more like a romantic interest. I have friends I haven't talk to in 6 months and one of us will call for lunch.... and we go to lunch. No drama.
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:37 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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what did u get up to?

he came back in to contact at the beginning of this month..nine months after he disappeared...

and i was trying to take it all in..and he was like being intense again..lik emotion wise and saying he wants to see me and why cant i meet him etc etc...it was like nothing for so long and then all of this in one go..

and i reacted in a defensive way i guess..like longing out the process of us meeting and he got annoyed at me a few times and said he didnt kno why he bothered and he would leave me to it..
but i managed to get it back on trackk..

now he's kind of backed of and not calling or messaging..and im wondering is it because hes waiting for me to open up? or pursue him instead of him? i dont know
So I was reading your post and was like, she has a reason to feel slighted, and then like no I wasn't, and then I thought he is working on some things and then was like no, maybe not, and then I was like, she still lost me, and then I was like, I'm almost out of milk, and then was like, this is the last regular weekend in football, and then was like oh yeah, she was asking something, and I still think that it sounds like he needs to work on somethings
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