Husband's female friend wanted help

[zentropa]

I am a little suspicious of the husband too. Sounds like his version is very conveniently blameless.

[jaynaydee]

You have caller id, do you pick up the phone at all when she calls or does your husband pick up?
She likes the attention your husband is giving her by answering her calls and allowing her to use him as her therapist. Some people will talk to anyone who will listen to them and continue to call them as long as they will listen. I think she's testing those boundaries with your husband and will continue to do so because she can and he's allowing it.
I think your husband needs to either ignore her calls or tell her to stop calling. It may be better to ignore her since he's already told her to stop calling and she didn't. As long as he makes himself available to her, she's going to keep calling.
And if you don't answer the phone when you see it's her, it may not hurt to pick up the phone and say, "My husband's busy, is there anything I can help you with?" I wonder if you do that few times she might get the picture.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by snugglegirl05

What are your impressions of my husband's female friend?
How would you have handled the situation if you were the wife?
If a similar situation happens again, how would handle the situation if you were the wife?

My impression is that their relationship is inappropriate and their intentions are suspect. I would tell my husband his "helping" stray female days are over (after I removed my foot from his ass). If he wants to really help people he can go volunteer at a shelter or for hospice. Your husband is full of shyte. I suggest you open your eyes to this and nip it in the bud now.