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Old 01-09-2014, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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Haven't we had a few threads very similar to this from one hit wonders?
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:21 PM
 
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You play, you pay.

Sorry, if this is true, you are obviously not mentally competent. If you go to court you may get a judge to agree and assign you a caretaker.

How so? Bareback feels much better. She's 34, I figured the chance is much lower and I know when to pull out. Then she said "theres a chance I can be pregnant" and my friend agreed. I'm scared because the relationship is so unstable, she went through my Facebook and messaged girls who were interested in me, telling them that I said they were ugly and messed up a lot of new chances for me. We didn't end on good terms.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:22 PM
 
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On the completely off chance this is a true story. What were you doing having sex without a rubber and with a woman who wants a kid when you don't anyway?
Regardless of what may be said, we all know the reason many young men and even older men make for not wearing one - it doesn't feel the same. I can't feel anything with one.

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It's totally true. I don't see what is so unbelievable other than the fact I haven't gave into cheating during that long sexless period?
Oops, wait, here come the excuses now. What is so unbelievable my dear is that you didn't educate yourself properly on the 'method' you decided to use and it's high risk factors. You even said yourself you knew there was residualness - how can you not take responsibility for yourself, your decisions, or your actions. Not her's, but your's.

You have accepted no culpability or responsibility for your own decisions in this matter.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:22 PM
 
Location: Wandering in the Dothraki sea
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I'm not going to judge you, and I have no doubt this is a real story. My late fiancé and I would use the pull out method for years, undoubtedly many times while I was ovulating, and i never got preggers. Count this as a lesson, you know what to do next time
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:24 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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I'm nervous. We had unprotected (and some rough) sex a lot this past weekend. I always pulled out in time. I know there was a lot of pre c*m present and she was right on her most fertile time of the month (pre and during ovalution). We did it a lot for 2 days. She is 34 years old. We are in an exclusive Long distance relationship due to her job transfer and first time both of us had sex since July. Is there a good chance she may be pregnant??? I don't know what to do? She tells me not to worry about it, but her clock is ticking and she wants a kid!!! I don't!
Hi Dad.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:25 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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If she is prego, the decision to have it or not isn't yours.

Pray she isn't, and next time, go anal.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:26 PM
 
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How so? Bareback feels much better. She's 34, I figured the chance is much lower and I know when to pull out. Then she said "theres a chance I can be pregnant" and my friend agreed. I'm scared because the relationship is so unstable, she went through my Facebook and messaged girls who were interested in me, telling them that I said they were ugly and messed up a lot of new chances for me. We didn't end on good terms.
Yep...and there it is as anticipated.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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How so? Bareback feels much better. She's 34, I figured the chance is much lower and I know when to pull out. Then she said "theres a chance I can be pregnant" and my friend agreed. I'm scared because the relationship is so unstable, she went through my Facebook and messaged girls who were interested in me, telling them that I said they were ugly and messed up a lot of new chances for me. We didn't end on good terms.
Did it feel $400 per month for 18 years good?
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:27 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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If this is legit, she could be only 4 dpo, so it's a bit early to test. If she ovulated on, say, Sunday, then it's too early to know. By next Thursday she can POAS and you'll get your result.

If you don't want a baby then wrap your sh*t.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I'm sorry but what's the point of this thread? You want to know what the chances are that she's pregnant? Well, regardless of what your "chances" are - she either is or she isn't. Your chances could be 50/50 or 90/10 or 20/80 and it really doesn't matter.

You had sex with out a condom when you don't want children. That's dumb.
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