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Yesterday a coupon came in for a coach pocketbook she wanted. Plus she needed a book for night school. While not home, she is texting me a lot, asking me to get te book and if we can get her pocket book.
But she has not said hello or goodbye to me in 5 days.
Let her know that these items are luxuries and if she wants things like this, she should let you practice your photography work and continue your business. Otherwise she can get a $20.00 chinese knockoff and photocopy a friends book.
She has calmed down and details discussed. Basically she was upset that I would use myself and another women as my "wife" on the site. No matter how many times I explained that it was a test shot, and told her that before we shot it, she was just not believing it.
Further, I asked why she thinks I would actually put a picture me myself on the site with another women, call her my wife, for all our friends and family to see....and complain about. Why would I do something to obviously wrong in front of her. Finally, I just told her you either believe me or you don't. This is what hit home.
She has calmed down and details discussed. Basically she was upset that I would use myself and another women as my "wife" on the site. No matter how many times I explained that it was a test shot, and told her that before we shot it, she was just not believing it.
Further, I asked why she thinks I would actually put a picture me myself on the site with another women, call her my wife, for all our friends and family to see....and complain about. Why would I do something to obviously wrong in front of her. Finally, I just told her you either believe me or you don't. This is what hit home.
She's irrational on this subject. You were standing in for a model who didn't arrive, right? And the test shot never was going up on the website, you would only post the final product, which would be with the two professional models.
I think what you experienced was a symptom of a deeper problem. Does she have other issues with your job, your profession? Her behavior was kind of childish. Something's wrong, somewhere. Have you ever had other disagreements where her reaction didn't make sense?
You did nothing wrong, sounds like she had no interest in being part of it in the past. It's clearly for the business, sounds like she was there. This is for your work, its not like you were making out with the women. Your wife is being unreasonable.
I'm a woman, so take this for what it's worth, but was she hormonal at the time?
If she's mid-thirties or beyond and was feeling hormonal it's more likely for something stupid to bother her.
I'm thinking this will blow over.
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