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Guys I knew this guy for two years, he's not a random stranger trying to get into my pants, when I knew him he was with his wife, I was also there when she left and he was devastated, which is not the case anymore, he doesn't even wear his ring anymore.
I just want to know if having a friends with benefits kind of relationship for a first sexual experience would be bad for me ?
Guys I knew this guy for two years, he's not a random stranger trying to get into my pants, when I knew him he was with his wife, I was also there when she left and he was devastated, which is not the case anymore, he doesn't even wear his ring anymore.
I just want to know if having a friends with benefits kind of relationship for a first sexual experience would be bad for me ?
If you are willing to do that go ahead. I wouldn't want that.
Guys I knew this guy for two years, he's not a random stranger trying to get into my pants, when I knew him he was with his wife, I was also there when she left and he was devastated, which is not the case anymore, he doesn't even wear his ring anymore.
I just want to know if having a friends with benefits kind of relationship for a first sexual experience would be bad for me ?
Yes because you're going to fall in love.
But if you're just anxious to have sex or lose your virginity then go for it but you have been forewarned.
Guys I knew this guy for two years, he's not a random stranger trying to get into my pants, when I knew him he was with his wife, I was also there when she left and he was devastated, which is not the case anymore, he doesn't even wear his ring anymore.
I just want to know if having a friends with benefits kind of relationship for a first sexual experience would be bad for me ?
No, he sounds like a friend who's trying to get into your pants.
Personally, I wouldn't want to get intimate with someone who doesn't want to discuss my (very valid) concerns until AFTER he finally pushed me into a sexual relationship. There's something cold about that, that says he doesn't have your interests at heart, like a friend should. I would avoid this guy, myself.
Trust me, he knows you're a virgin. He also knows what he wants and cares less about what you want. Be smart about this and listen to the advice of the people here. There is a better man out there willing to be with you and show you what a REAL relationship is without the headache of FWB.
Yeah, that's the other thing, OP. Sex tends to cause love or attachment, even though you may go into it thinking that's not what you want. And your "friend", being the somewhat cold type as it sounds, probably wouldn't become attached. So the relationship would be unequal. There's that risk. Just something more to think about. These FWB things sound great on paper, but what you rarely hear about (unless you're on C-D, lol) is that half the time, one of the parties involved will develop feelings for the other, and will end up miserable because of it. Sometimes it's the guy, sometimes the girl.
Vintage_girls right cakeitup...why is it you feel that it's sooo necessary for you to lose your virginity?..It's not a bad thing, it's not a shameful thing, there's no "deadline" that must be met for you to be considered "normal".
You think he's a "great guy"...do you think that your having sex with him is going to make it better for him?..because his "last relationship hurted him"?..what about you? You could end up hurt as well, if he decides to just use you until he finds someone else he really cares about...not just for their sexual "willingness", but for their feelings as well.
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