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You've had a sleep disorder for 11 years and yet you say it will be gone in a year? How does that work?
I wasn't saying it'd be gone in a year, though I'd really wish it'd happen that way. I said I'd need to rest up for a full year in order to get my health and strength back to normal state even if my illness would miraculously cured on its own now.
At any rate it makes a good excuse to avoid forming scary intimate relationships with others.
Well, that's an interesting way to look at it. I never thought about it that way. But no, that is not an excuse for anything at all. If a right person had come my way today and if I were healthy and able I'd certainly go for it and build something out of it. Unfortunately that's not the case.
Well, that's an interesting way to look at it. I never thought about it that way. But no, that is not an excuse for anything at all. If a right person had come my way today and if I were healthy and able I'd certainly go for it and build something out of it. Unfortunately that's not the case.
Have you made your appointment at the sleep lab yet?
So do you think that if they knew this their views about you will surely change and they will stop speculating about you as you mentioned.I don't know,it might or it might not, but I don't think so.No offence but I think there is a good chance that they will continue to speculate/assume despite that.[MY VIEW]
Thanks SF for taking the effort to reply in a such a meaningful way. I really appreciate it.
For your question above, I've just found out that they won't. Someone here has already speculated about me using the illness as an excuse to avoid having a relationship. When would they stop? Human nature, I suppose.....
Sleep disorder aside, you don't seem to really want a relationship except to have one so otherpeople stop bugging you. If you meet someone you like and want a relationship, you should see where it leads, regardless of your sleep disorder. When you get down to it, we'veall got a terminal illness called life. Yet we don't let that get in the way of what we want to do.
Love Joe's answer, we all hae a terminal illness called life!!! What do you really want? Would you like to be in a relationship? If so let go and see what happens...., I'm diverced many years, childless, many friends and it would be great if I met my match but in the meantime I'm living my life as you should....
hope you feel better.
I thought it was pretty clear, and in line with what others create threads about.
"This is my situation, what would you do?"
To answer the OP: been in a similar situation, and recommend getting your health in order. People are going to talk regardless so do what you need to do.
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I thought it was pretty clear, and in line with what others create threads about.
