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Old 02-10-2014, 08:54 PM
 
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Theorem. Let X be the set of all attractive women and let Y be the set of all currently available women. Then X intsct Y = ø.

Proof. Life experience.

Today I was at Starbucks reading and saw a girl who works at the front desk at my gym. She always smiles and says bye to me when I leave the gym. I thought about maybe striking up a conversation with her. But I didn't, because I assumed she has a boyfriend. Sure enough, a guy who was clearly her boyfriend came in and talked to her after an hour or so. (Of course he had male model looks.)

This has happened so many times that I'm glad I don't even bother trying to strike up conversations with attractive women. Any woman who is above average in looks and personality is taken.

Searching for an attractive mate is futile, especially if you're not good looking. I'm not sure why torture myself by thinking that I have a chance with sexy, smart women. They just hop from one good-looking guy to the next one.

 
Old 02-10-2014, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yeah all the goodlooking ones are taken. (Rolls eyes)
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:00 PM
 
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Yeah all the goodlooking ones are taken. (Rolls eyes)
It's true.
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:01 PM
 
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This is so lame and ridiculous! I know a number of young, attractive women, and they're all available. They're busy building their careers or going to grad school. Maybe instead of hitting up service personnel (not this, AGAIN! ), you should get active in your community, try to make a positive contribution to the world instead of spending your precious life whining, or take some university evening classes, and you might meet some of these bright, accomplished, attractive and single women.

Of course, whether any women by that description would be interested in the likes of you is a whole other matter.
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:02 PM
 
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I'm not sure why torture myself by thinking that I have a chance with sexy, smart women. They just hop from one good-looking guy to the next one.
I am not sure why you torture us either.

Didn't you give up on women about a year ago, complete with white flag gif?
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:04 PM
 
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It's true.
No, it's not, because not all good-looking women marry their first boyfriends, and not all women begin a new relationship without ending the one before it. The vast majority of women have not only had more than one boyfriend, but have had a period of time between each relationship when they were not taken. Your luck is that you have not managed to catch a woman while she was free.
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:04 PM
 
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Let's pretend it's true what you said, at some point those attractive women had to be single in order to get a boyfriend.

Perhaps what's more accurate is that the timing has to be perfect. I often think the same thing about men.
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:05 PM
 
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well OP no one is encouraging you to chase attractive women. and if you don't consider yourself attractive, social norms pretty much tell you to stay within you league.

i don't know about you but when i was a kid i always wanted a porsche, and i got one. then i wanted to marry an very attractive woman, and i did. i'm no george clooney, but i can't complain about the number of good looking women i have been involved with. and if i lived by all those social norm rules, life would suck for me. don't let life suck for you.
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:08 PM
 
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Originally Posted by DeathGreetsMeWarm View Post
Theorem. Let X be the set of all attractive women and let Y be the set of all currently available women. Then X intsct Y = ø.

Proof. Life experience.

Today I was at Starbucks reading and saw a girl who works at the front desk at my gym. She always smiles and says bye to me when I leave the gym. I thought about maybe striking up a conversation with her. But I didn't, because I assumed she has a boyfriend. Sure enough, a guy who was clearly her boyfriend came in and talked to her after an hour or so. (Of course he had male model looks.)

This has happened so many times that I'm glad I don't even bother trying to strike up conversations with attractive women. Any woman who is above average in looks and personality is taken.

Searching for an attractive mate is futile, especially if you're not good looking. I'm not sure why torture myself by thinking that I have a chance with sexy, smart women. They just hop from one good-looking guy to the next one.
Don't get so hung up on looks, your goal should be to find a person with a great personality and an amazing heart.
 
Old 02-10-2014, 09:08 PM
 
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Yeah all the goodlooking ones are taken. (Rolls eyes)

We have snake eyes!
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