where did you meet your husband, fiance or boyfriend?

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by Rose_Pedals2085

I think that I'm an attractive and friendly person, but for some reason, I haven't been approached.

If you are VERY attractive than that will work against you.

[lmw36]

High school. Our attraction didn't start until post college though. It's nice though, I almost feel like I "know" him better, and I knew his reputation better. Lots of my friends knew him, nobody had a bad thing to say, so I knew he was a pretty good guy. Three years this month and lots of plans for the future. I've got to say I NEVER thought I'd ever end up with anyone from my hometown, but here I am!

[calnbs]

Originally Posted by Rose_Pedals2085

I think that I'm an attractive and friendly person, but for some reason, I haven't been approached.

If you believe that you have the look and the personality then it should not be difficult finding someone. You just have to put yourself out there. Have you thought about approaching them instead of waiting for them to approach you? Just get to know them casually.

As a guy, I find relationship is like anything else in life. If you want it, you have to go out there and compete for it. Whatever you want in life, whether it's career, money, relationship, you have to go out there and make it happen. Honestly, if I sat around waiting, my wife would be married to someone else instead of me. In fact, she would never have met me.


Find a club, organization, a church, etc and get involve and meet people. The more you expose yourself to more people, the odds are better that you will meet someone who is single and is too looking for a relationship as well.