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Ok so my gf of 17 months has some serious trust issues with me right now.
So me and my gf had a fight about a page i suppesdly liked that had pics of other girls.(which i didnt like, i dont know how the hell it got there) And i tried telling her but she just accused me of lieing. So I was like you know what, go on my facebook, because i have nothing to hide. and lol.. omg the **** she tried accusing me for was like.. a status i liked over a year ago that said "like this and ill message you." Its not like i actually talked to the girl lol, and then she went through my messages.. and she saw that i talked to NO OTHER GIRLS after we met. But then she decided to go in the messages all the way before we met. And she saw that I tryed talking to someone that had the same name as the page i suppesdly like(which im guessing they made their profile into a page, thats how it got into my likes) and started saying you do know who this is, and accusing me of lieing and cussing at me more than ive ever been cussed at in my life and wanting to break up.
Then she decided to read the convo between me and my friend, and we wer having a convo about the gym and i said "theres some nice girls there" and she started trippen off that. Calling me so many names (disgusting pervert, piece of **** and you can just imagine the rest lol) And i told her truthfully that i look at girls, but i look at everyone lol. And she asked for the worst comment ive ever made to my friends, and i told her truthfully "Id **** them" but i told her i dont talk in those ways, i dont mean anything i say, and that i was just agreeing with friends. And now she thinks im a straight pervert and all i do is look at other girls -_-. Accusing me of cheating because of it, saying its not loyal and that the biggest lie i ever told her was im loyal.
I looked yeah, thats disrepectful, but thats not cheating lol. its not like i talked to or flirted with them, i didnt even have thoughts. Now she says she wants nothing to do with me because im a "cheating, lieing *******" ..... and that she cant trust me at all. I dont even look at girls all the time, i dont stare or anything. I promised her ill stop, but she wont believe me. Ive never even considered cheating, id rather break up than cheat. She said so many hurtful things, like she forgot that theres boundaries.
Dont you think this is a little overboard?
And i forgot to mention that this is a long distant relationship, and wer about to see each other for the first time in like 5 days.
...sorry I didn't really finish reading it..It made me stressed out. If it's overboard. yes it is. Long distance relationships should be as good as the one by your side "all the time" except the distance. Someone you actually want to be by your side. Maybe it's just a cry for attention.? You're seeing each other soon anyway, then maybe you can show her you're worthy of her trust. If not,then thank goodness it's long distance one.
And i forgot to mention that this is a long distant relationship, and wer about to see each other for the first time in like 5 days.
The question isn't 'how overboard is this' (obviously very)..but 'how will you choose to proceed'?! She will only get crazier after you sleep with her..lol Good luck with that!
First get away from that girl. If you can't look at a page on a computer with photos of other girls on it then you cannot look at any sort of advertisement in a magazine, watch television, watch a movie, look at a billboard or look around while you are driving a vehicle because <gasp> you might see another girl.
Second, get off of facebook.
Third, carry on and find a girl who is less crazy and not jealous, possessive, controlling and a general pain in the neck.
She says she feels disrespected to the max that ill do that, i dont get it. Its not like i made any acts. I really love this girl, but the things she said wer crazy , she was cussing me out in every sentence. It made me want to break up with her myself.
Quietly collect all of your belongs...this is way overboard and it won't get any better because the issue isn't with you, it's with her insecurities and only she can fix those.
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