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Originally Posted by Prince_Frog
Is it a given that any guy who is 35 or older gets a pass to freely bang any broad they date after a date or 2? I'm not 35 or older, so I don't know what I'm in for.
No one ever gets a "free pass" to have sex with anyone else.
Though as I've gotten older I find both parties generally want to do it sooner than later to test if there is any sexual chemistry issues. There is less of that childish "I should hold out because I don't want him to think I'm a ****" crap as well.
I'm in my 40s, and while I haven't, most of the women I date have either been married or had LTRs that went a decade or more and had years of bad sex in those relationships and they make it quite clear they will not deal with that ever again.
If they try to have sex with you immediately - they are bad guys.
If they don't try to have sex with you within 6 dates - they are no good either and get accused of having problems or diseases.
CD people, you are really one of a kind!
OP, you don't deserve this guy. 6 dates and you are already talking shyte about him. NOT NICE, GRACIOUS, NOT NICE!!
What kind of girl keeps condoms? That'd send off alarms.
Dude, most women IME keep a stash of them by the bed. It's very handy, if I don't happen to have supplies on me. I don't see a problem. Why would it set off alarms? It doesn't mean she's getting down with half the town. It just means that if she meets a special dude, the flow of events doesn't have to crash to a halt if he's not prepared.
What if she's on the pill, would that send off alarms? What's the difference between her taking a pill every day, and having supplies by the bed?
I'm sorry, but I've got a history of the opposite side of the pillow. I would never have been accused of waiting, so I have no idea what this guy would be doing.
I don't want to bring it up as I strongly prefer that a man to take the lead sexually. "Why won't you have sex with me" "Please shag me" etc makes my vagina dry up like an old chicken bone, such a turn off. Earlier on the thread someone suggested that I say something about having/getting a condom; that is something I may do.
No, I still believe that if you can't discuss sex with your partner, you are unready to have sex with that partner. So you say what you want plainly, give him a chance to reply, and open the discussion. It doesn't have to be DURING sex!
Women who can't ask for what they want sexually make me
No, I still believe that if you can't discuss sex with your partner, you are unready to have sex with that partner. So you say what you want plainly, give him a chance to reply, and open the discussion. It doesn't have to be DURING sex!
Women who can't ask for what they want sexually make me
She apparently wants him to be the aggressor AND a mind-reader.
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