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I've sometimes wondered "Why do individuals or couples or groups of friends or acquaintances (female or male two-somes or three-somes or however many other participants) choose to post porn videos of themselves engaging in sexual acts of whatever type(s) on the great multitude of FREE porn websites?"
Why oh why would they want to do this? I can see if it is purely a way for some to make money for themselves but, in this case, all these persons are uploading or having uploaded by others these videos of themselves to the great multitude of FREE porn websites for the entire lot of humanity to have access to at any time and forevermore for all eternity (whether having them watched by others online or whether such videos are downloaded by anyone and everyone . . . and all for FREE at that).
Now understand that I am NOT complaining here or offended in any way, shape or form by this availability of such sexual and erotic material and I myself do, in fact, appreciate having such material available for my own perusal or enjoyment anytime I myself might want it (not that I am an outright porn freak myself but, amongst the nearly-limitless range of resources one can find & make use of on the Internet and in life-at-large, it is just one more option to have at my avail if so desired . . . along with all the web's news sites, online banking, scholarly sites, online encyclopedia sites, social media sites, City-Data.com, etc. etc. etc. ) but it does make me ask myself: "Why would all these individuals want the entire world and for all time to come to know them so intimately and see, hear, and experience them in the most private and intimate ways conceivable?" I am personally glad and appreciative that they DO take it upon themselves to do so but I would never want to do so myself.
These individuals are seemingly OK with having you watch them engaging in sexual intercourse, oral sex, anal sex, self-masturbation, masturbation of others, having sex toys or other items inserted in their various bodily orifices, and so on. I mean it just boggles my mind. Would they choose to, as well, engage in these sex acts right in front of you and I (or us) in-person and let us observe it all in-person? And if the answer would be "No", then I would wonder "But they are totally OK and cool with doing it on live camera for posting for viewing on the web or for download to be viewed anytime by the entire lot of humanity (with anyone and everyone being able to freely view and hear them like this)?" And this includes being viewable in these most intimate and private situations prospectively by their parents, their siblings, their present or future children and grandchildren and great grandchildren, their grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, nephews and nieces, former or present or future classmates and teachers, former or present or future employers, former or present or future neighbors, any former or present or future acquaintances of theirs, and anyone and everyone else in the lot of humanity . . . and for all time to come!
What are your thoughts on what you think are their underlying motivations and their thinking as to why these individuals or couples or friends and acquaintances of theirs feel compelled and then take it upon themselves to post ALL the vast, seemingly endless supply of such audio-visual materials (i.e., videos) of themselves in these sexual situations for absolutely everyone and anyone to view and hear and forevermore (for all eternity to come) . . . and for FREE at that?
Or please share if you personally know or knew others who have done these deeds and spoken about it with you, or if you yourself have done these deeds yourself and can share your own thinking on these questions as to why you did it or continue to do it.
Yes. Whether (1) posting your own photos, drawings, ideas, details of personal life happenings and events, et al on a Facebook or similar social media sites and constantly feeling this need or drive to keep everyone updated about every single thought and every single event in your life from day-to-day or even from moment-to-moment, or (2) starting your own blog to have everyone see your ideas or other musings and postings, or (3) posting one's own personal videos or photographs on websites for others to partake of such as YouTube or Flickr and others, or (4) always taking it upon oneself to dress in whatever way you personally deem to be perceived as "stylish" for the consideration of others, or (5) feeling inclined to be a performer (actor, comedian, singer, dancer, musician, magician, et al) to always be sought out by others for your performances, or (6) wishing to be seen as a public speaker or public intellectual, or (7) taking it upon yourself to self-publish your own e-books (just so you can get attention, gain recognition, et al . . . and some even posting their e-books free-of-charge or for very nominal cost), . . . . . . . . . and so on and so on and so on . . . ad inifinitum, these are ALL examples or variants of what we could call "EXHIBITIONISM". That is, a need or desire to be in the spotlight and gain the affections or approvals of others or to simply hold others' attention spans (i.e., just for the sake of getting attention as a reward in and of itself, whether positive or negative attention). Also, the drive or desire to be famous or to have notoriety to whatever degree could be deemed as a variant of "EXHIBITIONISM".
So, in the end, it seems that the only question it comes down to is "Does the particular person's drive to 'exhibit' themselves cause real or measurable harm to individuals or to certain sub-segments of the population at-large or to society-at-large? Or, depending on HOW it is done or pursued, can it be deemed an activity that can be engaged in by responsible persons and encompassed within the realm of 'personal liberties'?" The fact or possibility that some individuals may not personally find such so-called "exhibitionist" behaviors appealing or palatable or sensible to their own sensibilities or tastes should not be the determining factor.
For instance, I personally find wholesale preoccupation with spectator sports as a way-of-life or immersing oneself in fantasy games (e.g., Dungeons and Dragons) as a way-of-life or drinking alcohol or partaking of recreational drugs as a way-of-life to be inane . . . but I am not going to tell others who partake of these activities my thoughts. These are just matters of personal taste or personal interest. And, in the case of those who drink alcohol or partake of recreational drugs, I can bring up many arguments on how it is self-destructive and also can be harmful to society-at-large and so on . . . and yet, if the individual otherwise keeps it in check and doesn't use it in a manner which causes measurable or real harm to others (e.g., driving or flying under the influence, operating machinery while under the influence, being publically drunk or drugged out in a way that makes one a public nuisance, et al), I look at it as "Well, individuals are entitled to do with their own bodies and minds as they deem fit, as long as it doesn't affect anyone else adversely. It fits within the realm of 'personal liberties' that are not my place to dictate for others -- unless those liberties are pursued in a way that causes detriment or harm to their neighbors or to society-at-large". And, in the case of drinking alcohol or partaking of drugs, for many persons, this is apparently a coping strategy that gets them through life (it has been called a form of "self-medicating"). Not a coping strategy that I personally would be inclined to use or pursue but then not everyone has my capacity to find non-self-destructive or even less self-destructive ways to "cope" with life's challenges.
I'm still sensing some built up frustration that needs to be released.
Re people, especially straight couples who post and over the internet uploading their emotional lovemaking aka porn visible the rest of us, mostly it's an ego trip thing, especially if the woman is young, natural and erotic.
It's like watch us and die!.
Also for posterity MEMORIES of ROMANTIC reasons too.
Re couples who post their porn for free for all to see. When the woman has fake boobs or is ugly, or old, then the rest of us aka the porn watchers are not affected in any form or shape, thus we are not CATERING TO THEIR EGOES, and they may very well be wasting their time, them LOOSERS. etc.
I've sometimes wondered "Why do individuals or couples or groups of friends or acquaintances (female or male two-somes or three-somes or however many other participants) choose to post porn videos of themselves engaging in sexual acts of whatever type(s) on the great multitude of FREE porn websites?"
Why oh why would they want to do this? I.
Hormones running amok. The thrill of being viewed by strangers, while remaining anonymous (they probably hope).
Seriously, OP; you couldn't figure that out for yourself?
These individuals are seemingly OK with having you watch them engaging in sexual intercourse, oral sex, anal sex, self-masturbation, masturbation of others, having sex toys or other items inserted in their various bodily orifices, and so on. I mean it just boggles my mind.
Gee, you seem to be quite the expert on what they're exhibiting, if you don't mind my saying so... Do you get a thrill out of having your "mind boggled"?
LOL! Thanx, Timber. We've been had, again! Who dredged this thing up? A New Member named George? Why would someone join C-D just to dig up this topic from 5 years ago, and post an opinion?
What's worse is when these same people claim to be victimized by other people viewing the pics that they freely chose to share with the entire world.
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