Am I normal when it comes to relationships? (wife, guys, young)

[Vaterland]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

Actually, you sound like a real scum bag and I hope at least their mom(s) lead a better example.

I love them as much as their mother and teach them to be good people.

[RogersParkGuy]

Originally Posted by Vaterland

I separated from my former partner of several years after keeping a mistress for about 6 months. I got together with my mistress but a year has passed and I can't stand her anymore. She's not nearly as good in bed as she was when we were having an affair.

I've recently started meeting up with another woman and she's way more interesting besides being younger.

Am I normal? I'm always hungry for novelty, especially new sexual experiences. I get bored of most women after a while.

You're "normal" in the sense that you have a desire for sexual novelty. However, your willingness to cheat on your partners and casually abandon them in pursuit of that novelty is at best immature, at worst a bit sociopathic. Those women don't exist just to satisfy you sexually. They are human beings, and you should treat them with a bit more respect.

[Vaterland]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

"normal" for an immature teenage boy with raging hormones - maybe.

For a grown ass man with children? Get some help already.

There are much better, healthier ways to fill that big hole in your heart and soul - you should be working on finding them.

Do people stop wanting sexual variety just because they are grown up?

And what do you exactly mean by big hole?

[Meyerland]

Meh, yawn, whatever.

Welcome to the forum first time poster.

Bang as many "chicks" as you want, just do it away from your kids.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Vaterland

Do people stop wanting sexual variety just because they are grown up?

And what do you exactly mean by big hole?

Ask your therapist.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by Vaterland

And what do you exactly mean by big hole?

Ask your therapist. If you don't have one, get one. Charlie Sheen could probably give you some referrals.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Ask your therapist. If you don't have one, get one.

Jinx, you owe me a coke, LOLOLOLOL

(are you too young to know that expression? )

[NilaJones]

Originally Posted by D217

If you live w/ the woman, you need to get your own place. The problem isn't your desire for sex, newness, or novelty, but whatever it is that you are using the "main" chick to provide for you that you should be able to provide for yourself. Most likely you fear being alone, hence your "need" to feel that there is always a woman there for you - on all sides.

What makes you think he can afford to pay his own rent? IME, guys like him usually mooch off wonen.

[Vaterland]

Originally Posted by NilaJones

What makes you think he can afford to pay his own rent? IME, guys like him usually mooch off wonen.

Huh? Quite the contrary actually...I've always worked.

[Vaterland]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Ask your therapist.

I don't have one. Besides, a therapist would probably laugh in my face because I would be there for what? Enjoying women?