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I used to be a happy kid, very long ago, as a 4-5 year old. I was naturally happy and I became sad due to my own psychological weakness, seeing as how I got depressed due to trauma and abuse. If ****ty memories made me depressed then it's up to me to make good memories and make myself happy.
Are you in therapy yet? Like Bannedontherun mentioned - there might be some meds that can help you. Sometimes it's not possible to make yourself happy - sometimes you need a little help. Lack of libido is a symptom of depression. I would say almost everyone likes to cuddle sometimes - but to have no interest in sex is a bit extreme.
Wow this is super dark and depressing. Cant you keep dropping your standards till you find a woman willing to s**k you off. What is the point of being with a woman just to cuddle unless your asexual?
I don't care about being sucked off.
I just have this loneliness and starvation for non-sexual intimacy. I just want someone *there*, to know that I am not alone in this world.
Are you in therapy yet? Like Bannedontherun mentioned - there might be some meds that can help you. Sometimes it's not possible to make yourself happy - sometimes you need a little help. Lack of libido is a symptom of depression. I would say almost everyone likes to cuddle sometimes - but to have no interest in sex is a bit extreme.
I'm pretty far from being able to afford therapy. And I am not at a point where I am suicidal, so I will go without the happy pill.
I do get involuntary erections once in a while so the desire for sex, or the desire to make the erection go away is still there.
However, all I want right now are hugs and cuddles and affection, and strongly...
I'm pretty far from being able to afford therapy. And I am not at a point where I am suicidal, so I will go without the happy pill.
I do get involuntary erections once in a while so the desire for sex, or the desire to make the erection go away is still there.
However, all I want right now are hugs and cuddles and affection, and strongly...
Just because you are not suicidal does not mean that you can afford to not be in therapy. Do you have health insurance? A lot of insurance companies will cover therapy. If not - there are places that will work on a sliding scale.
Just because you are not suicidal does not mean that you can afford to not be in therapy. Do you have health insurance? A lot of insurance companies will cover therapy. If not - there are places that will work on a sliding scale.
I make min wage with a debt to pay off. I have catastrophic insurance, but that's about it. I am years away from financing therapy. Maybe when I go back to school.
I make min wage with a debt to pay off. I have catastrophic insurance, but that's about it. I am years away from financing therapy. Maybe when I go back to school.
I would look into what is available to you. There might be places where you can go or you can call and talk to someone at no cost. Do you really want to live your life like this? You only get one life to live - is this the way you want to be living it?
Hmm. See, I have this problem: Cuddling more often then not, you know.......makes things happen to a certain part of my body. So....that generally makes the other party want it. Cuddle after that? Yeah, I'm good.
I've seen articles about that, and I think it's sad that someone would (be in a position to feel they need to) pay for snuggling.
Not everyone has the good fortune to come home to someone waiting for them to give them a welcome back hug. Not all of us have the smooth social skills to attract a person that can satisfy the craving for a human touch.
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