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This is what I realized today. I was attending a function at a cousin's place - some people I knew, while others were strangers - totally ignored by the high maintenance, 'hot' girls. But two nice down-to-earth girls started chatting with me, in fact, they even volunteered to help me with some problem I am currently having (work-related).
So I guess it's all about body language, more so than verbal communication. If you're a nice person, somehow you're sort of sending a signal to other nice people to come and talk to you, socialize with you. Like attracts like. So some sort of non-verbal understanding/communication takes place.... that's why nice people are often approached by other nice people, as it happened to me today.
I am so happy.
That's what that counts. Nice, down to earth girls, not high maintenance hot girls.
OP. you made a connection today that meant something. You made a connection for something long lasting over superficiality, maybe you met your future mate today, or maybe just a good connection that may help you in confidence when you do meet your future mate.
This is what I realized today. I was attending a function at a cousin's place - some people I knew, while others were strangers - totally ignored by the high maintenance, 'hot' girls. But two nice down-to-earth girls started chatting with me, in fact, they even volunteered to help me with some problem I am currently having (work-related).
So I guess it's all about body language, more so than verbal communication. If you're a nice person, somehow you're sort of sending a signal to other nice people to come and talk to you, socialize with you. Like attracts like. So some sort of non-verbal understanding/communication takes place.... that's why nice people are often approached by other nice people, as it happened to me today.
I am so happy.
If you are happy that is a good thing. But I want to know why do you think the high maintenance hot girls ignored you? And the down to earth girls, did you find them attractive?
This is what I realized today. I was attending a function at a cousin's place - some people I knew, while others were strangers - totally ignored by the high maintenance, 'hot' girls. But two nice down-to-earth girls started chatting with me, in fact, they even volunteered to help me with some problem I am currently having (work-related).
So I guess it's all about body language, more so than verbal communication. If you're a nice person, somehow you're sort of sending a signal to other nice people to come and talk to you, socialize with you. Like attracts like. So some sort of non-verbal understanding/communication takes place.... that's why nice people are often approached by other nice people, as it happened to me today.
I am so happy.
It happens, but it's the exception, not the norm.
Simply put, nice girls love "bad boys".
I have seen some gorgeous "10's" gravitate to intelligent, bespectacled egg heads, but the women were like genius IQ's themselves in most cases. Average, 80-90 IQ girls, 15-30 are usually drawn like magnets to the "Hey, dude, what's happenin'?" kinds of guys with the cig dangling from their mouth who exude danger and mystery.
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