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You're absolutely right, there isn't a solution. It'd be like trying to establish new laws of nature that vanquish Darwin's Survival of the Fittest, because that's exactly what it is.
Relationships were always complex but in the past, because of religious, economic and social mores men just naturally ended up working while the women folk married them, they bought a home, she stayed home and had children and both saw the kids off to college, all on one salary.
With the feminine revolution in the 60's followed by the gradual disintegration of the one-income family in the 70's and then the skyrocketing cost of an education, a home, rent and other COL's in the 80's-2000's
guys have taken a socio-economic hit that would make a hydrogen bomb seem like a firecracker. The best looking younger girls 18-30 have total independence now and they call the shots in a relationship; they go with the guys that most attracts them and, sadly, usually it's a guy who can be a charming, good-looking SOB who almost inevitably will end up breaking her heart, while the average-underaverage guys sit at home on the computers chatting with girls in chatrooms and pretending to be good-looking guys on the fast-track, or just watching porn and doing what guys do when they watch porn.
To get back to my original point, this is the new Survival of the Fittest world we live in now. The lucky few score the best girls, the other 80% to various degrees go anywhere from a few dates/few relationships that end up nowhere, to just being alone throughout their 20's. If they can last that long alone but with their sanity intact they might find a woman 30'ish who's tired of the bad boys scene and now just wants a responsible relationship with a good provider. A great many of them will just settle into bachelorhood, alone, unloved, and have premature fatal heart attacks from the loneliness.
I wish average non-trust-fund babies of the male gender the best of luck because they sure as hell are gonna need it.
Thats why I don't date its like average men are only good with women until they are tired of getting used.
hawaiian by heart said (i don't see a "quote" button)
"Gee maybe instead of always wantting to date the highschool star qb or the CEO of the board or the baywatch guys maybe you could show that there is value in someone and give them one date? What do you have to lose if it doesn't work? A free meal? Maybe a new friend? By doing this your willing to findout who he is. Maybe findout why he isn't a CEO is because he had to overcame alot more obstacles then the rich guy persa, making him really the winner"
It's not that. I am just not interested PERIOD. After so many disappointments and heartbreaks, I just want to be left ALONE. LOL.
hawaiian by heart said (i don't see a "quote" button)
"Gee maybe instead of always wantting to date the highschool star qb or the CEO of the board or the baywatch guys maybe you could show that there is value in someone and give them one date? What do you have to lose if it doesn't work? A free meal? Maybe a new friend? By doing this your willing to findout who he is. Maybe findout why he isn't a CEO is because he had to overcame alot more obstacles then the rich guy persa, making him really the winner"
It's not that. I am just not interested PERIOD. After so many disappointments and heartbreaks, I just want to be left ALONE. LOL.
I think me and you are the only ones who understand this.
But as I have gotten less respectful I have had better luck with women, obviously not as disrespectful as I am on here but not a nice guy and women respond to that.
Let's just clarify that it's not women as a whole but rather a certain type of woman who responds to a guy being a d-bag.
hawaiian by heart said (i don't see a "quote" button)
"Gee maybe instead of always wantting to date the highschool star qb or the CEO of the board or the baywatch guys maybe you could show that there is value in someone and give them one date? What do you have to lose if it doesn't work? A free meal? Maybe a new friend? By doing this your willing to findout who he is. Maybe findout why he isn't a CEO is because he had to overcame alot more obstacles then the rich guy persa, making him really the winner"
It's not that. I am just not interested PERIOD. After so many disappointments and heartbreaks, I just want to be left ALONE. LOL.
@bored chick,doobalistic
All the more reason to change our society values and sociology and thinking of our society.
I vaguely recall in one of my posts saying that this increasing sense of isolation that non-desirable guys are beginning to experience would lead to outbursts of violence against girls such as this. The Internet most likely plays a part: non-desirable guys turning more and more to Internet porn to relieve themselves; starting to hate themselves for having to resort to such behavior they feel is immoral, indecent, embarrassing, even perverted; the guilt messing with their heads to such a degree that they start to fantasize about punishing girls in general and especially those in particular who reject them, thus, in their minds forcing them into such embarrassing behaviors; the fantasies playing out in their minds to such a degree that it's just a step away from them acting out these fantasies; voila, we see more and more of these violent, mass murders perpetrated in schools by guys pushed over the edge. Notice they are all being done by guys.
Is this surprising?
No, not when you analyze that guys act, girls react and then the rejected guys act out.
This is what happens when 80% of single male population is ignored. Im afraid this is only scratching the surface. Of course the article is more nonsensical feminist tripe, trying to portray an average male as a loser, and a cold blooded killer but that's besides the point. See, for thousands of years, weak genes did not get to be passed on, because weaklings and undesirables died during infancy. With modern medicine, pretty much everyone survives, even those that weren't meant to pass on their genes. I honestly believe that women are subconsciously committing genocide, by flocking to only the most desirable (most often taken or shared) males, to ensure the weak, feminized beta fruitpops die off without being able to reproduce. Let me assure you, that this is not a kneejerk stance, it is a result of long time research and careful consideration. In other news "Epidemic of cheating wives in western world"...
Let's just clarify that it's not women as a whole but rather a certain type of woman who responds to a guy being a d-bag.
What the whole of CD fails to realize is that the d-bag characteristics are not what makes him attractive. It is just typical that guys that act like d-bags also tend to have other very attractive male qualities. Dominance, confidence, humor, looks, etc.
So yes, only some girls will put up with the d-baggery. The tend to be young, hot, and aren't exactly looking for a husband. It's only in the late twenties and on do these girls put up the road block for guys that exhibit the d-bag characteristics.
No, thats what a lunatic future serial killer does...PUA stuff just teaches men to be confident and dominant (in a good way) over Women they go after and attempt to date....It teaches men to be more Alpha and sexually assertive etc so they end up a lover and not "her best guy friend"....I've never seen a PUA forum/book say to be violent and psychopathic to a women.
Anyone who is going to kill someone over a prom rejection would have wound up killing someone eventually...It was only a matter of time..
True. But this goes back to what I said on the now-defunct thread about Carl and Lilly, about how kids are not being taught how to accept defeat gracefully, learn from it, and use it to better themselves.
This is the least violent generation in the history of mankind and violence has been on the steady decline over the last 100 years....Gun Violence is also down a huge amount over the last 100 years.
Men have been killing Women who have rejected them since the dawn of time....It's extremely rare ( like .00001 percent of men will kill a girl over rejection), but it does happen and it has always happened....Perhaps this was just the .00001 percent of men who take rejection that seriously and the girl just got unlucky??
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