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I think most people think of boudoir photos as being more "classy" or "tasteful." They're not full-on, spread-eagle type poses. And I've never heard of sex being involved. (That would be called something else entirely.) Usually, it's just nice lingerie, alluring posturing, etc.
So...I brought up the idea of possibly doing a "boudoir" photoshoot to my DH & he was against it.
Granted, he is an old world Latin macho & the idea of another man looking at his "mujer" is probably off-putting. Plus, he takes pictures of me with his phone all the time already & says it is enough for him.
However, I think they are so sensuous & sexy & it would be a nice anniversary gift to him so he can remember what my body looked like "pre-baby" Should I do it anyway? It kind of turns me on for him to have professionally sensual photos of me for him on the bedroom dresser drawer
Any women/wives/fiancees have experience with the Boudoir photo sessions? Is it worth it? Should I respect his wishes and NOT do it? Should I surprise him?
Just curious, that's all....
If YOU want pics of YOURSELF then go ahead. But you are acting like it is for him but at the same time you admit it is for you ... soooo ... he doesn't give a damn, very obviously.
Do it if you want to. Don't do it if you don't want to. Either way, though, stop referring to your husband as "DH" unless those are his initials or he's a designated hitter.
Do it if you want to. Don't do it if you don't want to. Either way, though, stop referring to your husband as "DH" unless those are his initials or he's a designated hitter.
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Do it if you want to. Don't do it if you don't want to. Either way, though, stop referring to your husband as "DH" unless those are his initials or he's a designated hitter.
I've been told "dear husband." Either way, it's one of those things that only exists on internet forums that I find to be obnoxious as hell. Just type out the word "husband." Is that hard?
Apparently I'm in the minority with this viewpoint, though, so carry on with the cutesy-pie acronyms.
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Should I do it anyway? It kind of turns me on for him to have professionally sensual photos of me for him on the bedroom dresser drawer 
