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I met this girl online and things have been going well and I asked what her schedule was like next weekend and she said she is driving 6 hours to Virginia to see a male friend who she went to college with and is spending the weekend down there
So I am not sure what to make of this and deciding whether or not I should still take her seriously. She shows me interest and calls and send good morning texts so the interest is there but this visit to see a friend doesn't sound right. What do you think ladies? I didn't want to pry too much but all she said was it's a friend she went to college with. Also when I was trying to imply something she sounded like she was about to get annoyed with me so I backed off. But then again I don't want to believe she would be telling me about this trip if she knows I have interest in dating her.
My best friend (male - I am female) lives in NY and I live in AZ. Sometimes I get on a plane to Pittsburgh to go see him. There's nothing untoward about that visit and my husband of 22 years has no problem with it at all.
My best friend (male - I am female) lives in NY and I live in AZ. Sometimes I get on a plane to Pittsburgh to go see him. There's nothing untoward about that visit and my husband of 22 years has no problem with it at all.
Might just be a friend.
You maybe right because she knows i'm interested in her so I don't think she would be telling about some dude she is going to bang all weekend.
Dude, the good news is she's telling you the truth! Like you said, she could've lied and told you she was visiting her cousin or a gf, or something. So it's prob'ly legit.
Dude, the good news is she's telling you the truth! Like you said, she could've lied and told you she was visiting her cousin or a gf, or something. So it's prob'ly legit.
yeah that's a good point, I didn't look at it like that
yeah that's a good point, I didn't look at it like that
Not to freak you out ok, but my suggestion is to keep busy and don't let it drive you crazy, because the truth is you will never know the truth. I had a girlfriend that told me the exact same thing that the guy was a friend but found out she was sleeping with him.
I met this girl online and things have been going well and I asked what her schedule was like next weekend and she said she is driving 6 hours to Virginia to see a male friend who she went to college with and is spending the weekend down there
So I am not sure what to make of this and deciding whether or not I should still take her seriously. She shows me interest and calls and send good morning texts so the interest is there but this visit to see a friend doesn't sound right. What do you think ladies? I didn't want to pry too much but all she said was it's a friend she went to college with. Also when I was trying to imply something she sounded like she was about to get annoyed with me so I backed off. But then again I don't want to believe she would be telling me about this trip if she knows I have interest in dating her.
You have been out with her 3 times, she is showing interest, she has told you she is going to see a friend which I'm sure was planned before you met her, she is allowed to have male and female friends even if she is dating or in a relationship.
Quit trying to make something out of nothing, quit implying anything that you have no basis to imply and quit trying to control what she does.
If you keep on with any of this it will show her that you already do not trust her and she will move on quickly, which she should do.
A lot of people will just tell you what they think you wanna hear. Not me...I think it's still very early in your dating relationship with her, so you don't have any power to sway this one way or another. I think there is probably more to it than just friends, there may be some history there. I've also been told the friend lie before. She driving 6 hours to hang out? Really?
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