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I won't pay a cent if the test shows he's not my son. A woman can get criminal charges over this in my country and the result, at very least, includes paying back what you've spent with the child. Your name is also removed from the birth certificate, obviously.
Did you see my question? What do you plan to do about your relationship with the boy? Will you continue to see him, or will you see your children without their brother?
I won't pay a cent if the test shows he's not my son. A woman can get criminal charges over this in my country and the result, at very least, includes paying back what you've spent with the child. Your name is also removed from the birth certificate, obviously.
There is a country that is still sane, AND it has internet access?
Of course I'm already attached to the little boy but I still feel like it's something I should clarify now.
I think it all depends on whether your attachment to the child extends to the idea that he is an innocent child and regardless of who's child he is, he doesn't deserve to be punished for this. Or you think if he isn't your child, you could care less how he feels. If it is the first case, you probably should leave it a mystery.
I think it all depends on whether your attachment to the child extends to the idea that he is an innocent child and regardless of who's child he is, he doesn't deserve to be punished for this. Or you think if he isn't your child, you could care less how he feels. If it is the first case, you probably should leave it a mystery.
How about that an innocent man doesn't deserve to be punished for this?
My partner and I have been together for 15 years and we're going through separation right. We had 2 children almost immediately after another, they're 13 and 12. We also have a 2 year old son.
By the time he was born things had been deteriorating for long. She suspected I was cheating and when I proved her I wasn't, we reconciled and well, she got pregnant.
However, I always had a doubt in the back of my mind about him, since we were separated for a while before we made peace. Of course I'm already attached to the little boy but I still feel like it's something I should clarify now.
What would you say?
Tests are $30 AT WALMART. Send out a swab to a lab, pay another $130 and you get your results. In my opinion, every birth certificate should include DNA match, before anyone is proclaimed a father, but of course that will never happen. Your intuition has been developed for thousands of years, and it is there for a reason. If you feel something is off, it usually is. Go for it.
You could just do what millions of men have done over the ages, turn a blind eye and TAKE him as your son, regardless of biology.
A man can be a father to a kid, but DESERVES to know if he is his biological father or not. Passing ones genes is important to men, and for this reason we seek loyal and less promiscuous women. Thanks to DNA testing, we can now find the truth. Men do not burry their heads in the sand, and pretend like the truth doesn't matter. We believe in honor, loyalty and consistency of character. WE do not however, change our mind on important decisions based on whether we benefit from it or not, at any given moment. Feminists were fighting not to long ago to make DNA paternity testing illegal. What a shocker.
It's callous and cruel on the part of the cheating, lying, mother, not the guy who isn't his biological father. The kid is 2, he'll never even remember.
The female responses here are absolutely incredible.
How is she cheating and lying when they were separated and I don't recall anywhere that the original poster stated they are legally married.
So when they were separated they both are free to date whomever they choose and there is/was no guarantee they were going to work things out and get back together.
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