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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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OP, I think you are best served forgetting about this girl and moving on. She is not worth dying over trust me and you already know the father is violent. Let it go.
You may have to wait several years before you can have any type of relationship with her... providing that she wants to have a relationship with you at that time.
Last edited by snugglegirl05; 05-27-2014 at 05:59 PM..
I am on the fence with this one. If a guy did that to me, and claimed he liked me, I probably would never want anything to do with you.
If her father remembers you, I am not sure if he would be so quick to forgive you or be fond of you. EVER. You may have changed but a lot of father's are very protective of their daughters and when guy has done them wrong, and they know about you, 9 times out of 10 they still probably think you are no good.
What happened is she left her diary, I took it home for a day and I read a couple pages. Not just that but I made copies of a couple pages, passed it around to a couple friends and others and made few jokes about it. I was 17 then (though I've grown a lot more since my last growth spurt and would now be even in a fight with her father, somehow I still fear him). Anyways a couple days later she came with her father. Her father backed me against a wall explaining how she's been crying and was pisssed as hell (rightfully... I was a stupid kid then) while I just keep apologizing till he let me go. Then he threatned me that if it ever happened again I even come close to her, then I would have to deal with him and it won't look good. I still remember those words ''Ever hear from you again, it'll be your last...you understand''??
Is there a way I might be able to ease this situation?
That's not the kind of growing I was hoping to hear.
You're on double secret probation with her father so treat the girl like a delicate flower because it will take alot of time to win him back.
Move on , if her father is a good one he won't approve of you after what you have done. Your only 20, this happened recently, my worry would be if she was in a relationship with you, with trends of sending pics and intimate details, you guys get in a fight/ you get jealous and are with your buddies at a party having fun, others are showing pics/ messages and you join in. Peer pressure, and " well everyone was doing it" creep up, seen it quite a bit. I wouldn't hold my breath for her father to accept you after this short of time, if you said this was 10 years ago yada yada, then I'd say try but tread carefully
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by jaypee
That's not the kind of growing I was hoping to hear.
You're on double secret probation with her father so treat the girl like a delicate flower because it will take alot of time to win him back.
I really think he is better off treating this woman like she is a flower on the White House lawn, don't even think about going near her or touching her.
Why is this girl so special that you need to keep her around after treating her like **** for so many years?
It was that one time she left her diary. I would just ignored her before and simply focus on my friends and dated someone else. After that encounter with her father, I didn't speak to her. Though I did felt terrible later on.
Sometimes you see how special someone is and how things would have turned out when it's late. It happens. Sometimes you just don't notice them.
During these months it's when I've been developing strong feelings for her. Really. I don't want to hurt her as before. I really don't.
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Originally Posted by rego00123
The father is protecting his daughter from falling in with losers and making bad choices.
I understand but are you saying people can't make mistakes, regret it and simply want to be a better person?
She is an idiot for even considering being with you!
You were young but that pretty much sums you as a person for sharing her journal.
I have had a similar experience and you never forget the betrayal. Ever!
She may be setting up a revenge for you.
Marriage???? You think she would go that far?
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