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Old 06-05-2014, 10:16 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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If you're regularly not hearing from women again after the first date, you're either dating the wrong women or you're doing something wrong on your dates.

If he's dating people that may be looking for a date to get a free meal (seriously?) he's obviously not choosing quality ladies.

Though, the doing something wrong is also a good assumption here as well.
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Old 06-05-2014, 10:52 AM
 
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If you're regularly not hearing from women again after the first date, you're either dating the wrong women or you're doing something wrong on your dates.
If the OP is TV&SportsGuy/WestPhillyDude as has been suggested, he finds fault with every woman he meets. Usually it's for having the nerve to ask something like "what do you do for fun?" So if he did hear from them again, he'd probably go on a rant about them being too needy.
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Old 06-05-2014, 11:27 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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If the OP is TV&SportsGuy/WestPhillyDude as has been suggested, he finds fault with every woman he meets. Usually it's for having the nerve to ask something like "what do you do for fun?" So if he did hear from them again, he'd probably go on a rant about them being too needy.
He has another ice cream date coming up. Let's see how that goes.
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Old 06-05-2014, 12:08 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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It's statements like this that are why I won't meet you at the Franklin Fountain.

Seriously though, couldn't the same be said about a guy? And why aren't you going Dutch treat if these women are running you broke?
What about panera bread
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Old 06-05-2014, 12:14 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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He has another ice cream date coming up. Let's see how that goes.
Its been changed to coffee
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Old 06-05-2014, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Location: Location
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Just want to let everyone know that I read her profile again and she didn't have a essay at all and was looking for a man 31-54 LOL


So I guess I can see now why she reacted the way she did lol
Their age or their I.Q.? I'd never trust anyone who went right to dinner and a movie.

I regularly take two girls for ice cream. Of course, they're 12 and 8 y.o.
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Old 06-05-2014, 01:40 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Its been changed to coffee
BO-ringggg! But I guess I can't blame you, considering the dominant opinion on this thread, and the response you got to your icecream invite.
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Old 06-05-2014, 01:45 PM
 
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A woman is in a WIN-WIN situation since she is going to see if she clicks with a guy and if not she still got a meal out of it
why do you keep assuming that she is not going to pay for her own meal? if you are getting used consistently by women trying to finagle a free dinner out of you, then maybe you need to figure out why you keep attracting these type of women. it doesn't have to be that way. there are a lot of women who will pay for their fair share.
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Old 06-05-2014, 01:58 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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why do you keep assuming that she is not going to pay for her own meal? if you are getting used consistently by women trying to finagle a free dinner out of you, then maybe you need to figure out why you keep attracting these type of women. it doesn't have to be that way. there are a lot of women who will pay for their fair share.
But a lot of women won't call you back if you go dutch
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Old 06-05-2014, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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But a lot of women won't call you back if you go dutch
And you don't want to date a woman who won't go dutch, so it all works out.
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