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Old 06-03-2014, 07:36 PM
 
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Blah blah blah. The good old days. Some of the ******* comments bashing me mercilessly when you people don't even know if i upset women or not on recent pages are kind of pissing me off.
Your main problem is your attitude, not your perceived mental illness.
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Old 06-03-2014, 07:37 PM
 
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You sound quite self effacing. I don't need to make myself better for the sake of women, other than working on not staring. I'm good enough just as I am, except in areas that I want to improve for my own sake. I'm not harming women by existing as I am.
Then improve in those areas, simple as that!!!
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Old 06-03-2014, 07:44 PM
 
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Then improve in those areas, simple as that!!!
Sounds good!
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Old 06-03-2014, 08:35 PM
 
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Attention is when the janitor stops by to say hello as he collects the trash at the end of the day.
Attention is when the janitor says you look nice today.
Harrassment is when the janitor rubs your shoulder and asks if you're "trying to catch a man" since you wore lipstick today.
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Old 06-03-2014, 08:37 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Attention: "sexual attraction"

Harassment: "no sexual attraction"


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Old 06-03-2014, 08:54 PM
 
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Attention: "sexual attraction"

Harassment: "no sexual attraction"


This is true and usually the main reason
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Old 06-03-2014, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Attention: "sexual attraction"

Harassment: "no sexual attraction"


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This is true and usually the main reason
You guys couldn't be more wrong. It doesn't have to do with how attractive someone is. It has to do with feeling uncomfortable or unsafe. It's pretty scary that apparently some people on here think that if you are good looking, you basically can't harass or rape a woman because she'd be attracted to you.

Most men are not bad men. But the ones that are bad men are bad regardless of how attractive they are.
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Old 06-03-2014, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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If it wasn't for my girlfriend blatantly telling me she was interested in me, I would've never asked her out.
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Old 06-03-2014, 09:04 PM
 
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You guys couldn't be more wrong. It doesn't have to do with how attractive someone is. It has to do with feeling uncomfortable or unsafe. It's pretty scary that apparently some people on here think that if you are good looking, you basically can't harass or rape a woman because she'd be attracted to you.

Most men are not bad men. But the ones that are bad men are bad regardless of how attractive they are.
If a woman finds a man attractive she wont consider it harassment. Attractive is not just looks ( according to women ), its also attitude and personality. Attractive men approaching is not harassment.
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Old 06-03-2014, 09:06 PM
 
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If a woman finds a man attractive she wont consider it harassment. Attractive is not just looks ( according to women ), its also attitude and personality. Attractive men approaching is not harassment.
You can't be harassed by something you WANT.
it has nothing to do with being attractive or ugly....it has to do with MUTUAL interest and intent.
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