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You aren't committed to either of them yet. You don't owe either of them anything yet. See them both and see how the chemistry goes. There's nothing wrong with dating two guys at once.
Of course you probably should be honest with them after seeing them both, just so you can establish that honesty and trust.
Find a third one. Obviously neither one of those two is the right one, otherwise you would KNOW.
^^^^This.
The attention might feel good, but really, if you were meant to be in a relationship with one of them, you wouldn't be wondering who to pick. Decline both invites, and open yourself up to the possibility of meeting someone you really connect with, to the point that you don't need to ask anyone else if you should be with him.
The attention might feel good, but really, if you were meant to be in a relationship with one of them, you wouldn't be wondering who to pick. Decline both invites, and open yourself up to the possibility of meeting someone you really connect with, to the point that you don't need to ask anyone else if you should be with him.
Absolutely,
At this point all you really have is just two sex buddies. Based off of your post it appears that neither guys has brought up the idea of relationship.
Them wanting to "see you" is nothing more then them wanting to "have sex" with you.
That is all you have at this point. Two sex buddies.
If you are cool with being a monthly booty call then continue on.
Last edited by usamathman; 06-27-2014 at 07:51 AM..
I wouldn't choose either. I agree w/ other posters if you're having such a hard time deciding, then neither of them is right for you. Plus with either guy you'll be in a long distance relationship. I would try to find someone who lives in the same city as you.
You aren't committed to either of them yet. You don't owe either of them anything yet. See them both and see how the chemistry goes. There's nothing wrong with dating two guys at once.
Of course you probably should be honest with them after seeing them both, just so you can establish that honesty and trust.
I'd hope women I'm being intimate with would consider us exclusive, I'm sure I get played quite a bit though. Maybe I'm just old fashioned.
At the same time, I don't consider a LDR a real relationship. . . so I kinda agree with this post in that light.
At this point all you really have is just two sex buddies. Based off of your post it appears that neither guys has brought up the idea of relationship.
Them wanting to "see you" is nothing more then them wanting to "have sex" with you.
That is all you have at this point. Two sex buddies.
If you are cool with being a monthly booty call then continue on.
No, she has one sex buddy, and an ex who wants to get back together with her. His wanting to talk to her is probably about discussing the possibility of a relationship.
OP, idk how seriously I'd take a guy who only confessed his interest when in a drunken state, and a "relationship" that started off due to excess alcohol consumption. But maybe that's just me. It sounds like the main reason you "have feelings" for the second guy is simply that he's paying you a lot of attention.
Honestly, I don't know whether to take the whole thread seriously. We've been getting so many troll threads lately, all involving very cliche situations, with "what should I do" in the title, posted by new accounts, it's hard not to dismiss them.
And btw, it's "cue", not "queue".
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; 06-27-2014 at 09:59 AM..
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