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Old 07-12-2014, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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So because he is posting about stuff you don't like you women talk bad about him? Women deserve all the abuse they get.
I didn't talk bad about him. I told him to get help. He needs professional help - not CD help.

As for women deserving all the abuse they get - let's just say that I hope you get what you deserve.
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Whats that?
An infraction.
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:12 PM
 
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Because 14-year-old girls should continue to wield power over you 20 years later. Come on already!

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Old 07-12-2014, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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If your not a licensed professional you have no right to say who does or doesn't need help so refrain from that.
This is a public forum. We are allowed to speak our minds. It is my opinion that he needs more help that CD can offer him. He has been here for years saying the same thing over and over again. OBVIOUSLY - CD has not helped him.

Many of us are sensitive. Many of us have had bad experiences. It is easier to blame our lives on others than it is to accept personal responsibility. But ultimately - blaming others does nothing to help ourselves.
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:22 PM
 
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This is a public forum. We are allowed to speak our minds. It is my opinion that he needs more help that CD can offer him. He has been here for years saying the same thing over and over again. OBVIOUSLY - CD has not helped him.

Many of us are sensitive. Many of us have had bad experiences. It is easier to blame our lives on others than it is to accept personal responsibility. But ultimately - blaming others does nothing to help ourselves.
I don't blame others for everything. I blame myself for most stuff. But that's a message I got very on that girls hate me, and it has scarred me for life. I'm responsible for the damage it did, because of my overly sensitive nature. But most people didn't get the unequivocal message throughout their child and pre-teen years that all their peers think they suck. To this day, I only get along with people of the older generation than me.
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:26 PM
 
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I didn't talk bad about him. I told him to get help. He needs professional help - not CD help.

As for women deserving all the abuse they get - let's just say that I hope you get what you deserve.
Professional help hasn't done me any good either.

I disagree with the other poster's assessment that women deserve abuse. That's just silly.
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Explain to me why we should blame ourselves for other people rejecting us and did you really think this site was going to help people? So I should get an infraction for speaking my mind?
It's really just a waste of time talking to you so I think I'll stop now.

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I don't blame others for everything. I blame myself for most stuff. But that's a message I got very on that girls hate me, and it has scarred me for life. I'm responsible for the damage it did, because of my overly sensitive nature. But most people didn't get the unequivocal message throughout their child and pre-teen years that all their peers think they suck. To this day, I only get along with people of the older generation than me.
You LET it scar you for life. I was teased. I was ridiculed. I had other girls gang up on me. I cried all the time in elementary school. I had a guys make fun of me. I had people call me fat. I had an eating disorder. But you know what - lots of people get called fat and don't develop an eating disorder. I realize that my own issues were the cause of my problems.

Are you going to continue to let some little girls affect your life today?
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:27 PM
 
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I don't blame others for everything. I blame myself for most stuff. But that's a message I got very on that girls hate me, and it has scarred me for life. I'm responsible for the damage it did, because of my overly sensitive nature. But most people didn't get the unequivocal message throughout their child and pre-teen years that all their peers think they suck. To this day, I only get along with people of the older generation than me.
It is your fault. It scarred you for life because you LET it.
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Professional help hasn't done me any good either.

I disagree with the other poster's assessment that women deserve abuse. That's just silly.
Then find a new therapist. It's important to find one that you connect with.

As for women deserving abuse - I don't think any decent human being agrees with that!
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Old 07-12-2014, 08:33 PM
 
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This is a public forum. We are allowed to speak our minds.
But only with one account. Some of these guys should remember that.
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