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Old 07-27-2014, 10:27 PM
 
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If funny + confidence meant I'd have no problems attracting women, then I wouldn't be here complaining about dating and meeting people. Too bad I know that's a damn like because it takes much more than just 2 things to make it work. Apparently for me, it takes infinitely more.
Funny and confident are catalysts, but don't have any substance on their own.

You have to be funny & confident speaking about whatever that particular woman wants, her flavor.
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Old 07-28-2014, 10:17 AM
 
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Funny and confident are catalysts, but don't have any substance on their own.

You have to be funny & confident speaking about whatever that particular woman wants, her flavor.
It's a meaningless cliche term..the only thing it really means is for a good looking guy to be confident enough to approach a women

It's it's not a magic potion that makes unattractive men attractive to women like some claim..
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Old 07-28-2014, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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What captivates me? This is tough for me because I don't want to list what I like in a man. To me, a captivating man is one who can spark my attention quickly and hold my attention. I would guess that it IS confidence, that "swagger" that men have. How they carry themselves and speak to people. How they do their job, no matter what that job is. Yep.

I am hoping that I am making sense!
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Old 07-28-2014, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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My winning smile makes captivates em. Actually, what captivates is the guy standing behind me, but I prefer to believe the latter.
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Old 07-28-2014, 12:22 PM
 
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By being a supreme gentleman.
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Old 07-28-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Here are a few of the things I have found captivating:
1. men who make furniture or woodworking
2. having a good singing voice
3. gregarious personality
4. unique hobbies (this covers a wide stretch of things, but basically anyone who is doing something I have never met anyone else who does it.)
5. men who cook well
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Old 07-28-2014, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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By being a supreme gentleman.
Oh forgot that one!
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Old 07-28-2014, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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My husband is an amazing tenor and bass, his voice sends me over the moon
Nice voice is good! To call just to "talk" I mean listen to him talk.

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Manliness.

I love it.
It is attractive, but hard to describe.

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I've been told by female friends in the past that a great smile and artistic talent was captivating to them.
I was going to update my list for that. Smile is critical!
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Old 07-28-2014, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Now I want to add to my "captivating man" criteria. So many good thoughts!
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Old 07-28-2014, 04:44 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Well endowed works
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