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If funny + confidence meant I'd have no problems attracting women, then I wouldn't be here complaining about dating and meeting people. Too bad I know that's a damn like because it takes much more than just 2 things to make it work. Apparently for me, it takes infinitely more.
Funny and confident are catalysts, but don't have any substance on their own.
You have to be funny & confident speaking about whatever that particular woman wants, her flavor.
What captivates me? This is tough for me because I don't want to list what I like in a man. To me, a captivating man is one who can spark my attention quickly and hold my attention. I would guess that it IS confidence, that "swagger" that men have. How they carry themselves and speak to people. How they do their job, no matter what that job is. Yep.
Here are a few of the things I have found captivating:
1. men who make furniture or woodworking
2. having a good singing voice
3. gregarious personality
4. unique hobbies (this covers a wide stretch of things, but basically anyone who is doing something I have never met anyone else who does it.)
5. men who cook well
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