Friends with benefits: cuddling or no cuddling? (men, loving, call)
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I’ve had a FWB guy for a year now. He knows that I want something more and he doesn’t right now. But we talk everyday and after sex he always wants me to rub on him until he falls asleep. Some nights he wants me to spend the night with him. I have developed strong feelings for him and he is aware of them. He says that my feelings for him doesn’t bother him and I shouldn’t stop telling him How I feel. Idk what to do? Should I just ride it out?
I love my friends. Of course I would want to show them physical affection in and out of bed.
When I had FWBs there was never had a problem with either of us getting attached. Maybe its a life stage thing? None of us wanted to be in relationships at all, much less with each other. But we still had fun going out and having fun together as companions
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Cuddling with a FWB is like going to a Japanese steakhouse and filling up in the soup and salad then not being able to eat the meat and rice because you filled up on the soup and salad before.
I say just stick to the damn business which is the sex, no games, no BS, no time wasting. If you want cuddling, find a legit romantic relationship. A FWB satisfies a need for sex no more,
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Originally Posted by The Dissenter
Cuddling with a FWB is like going to a Japanese steakhouse and filling up in the soup and salad then not being able to eat the meat and rice because you filled up on the soup and salad before.
I say just stick to the damn business which is the sex, no games, no BS, no time wasting. If you want cuddling, find a legit romantic relationship. A FWB satisfies a need for sex no more,
You are speaking about a FB. Not a FWB. Completely different animals.
And cuddling for many people can be part of the foreplay and afterplay, it IS part of the sex for many people.
Cuddling with a FWB is like going to a Japanese steakhouse and filling up in the soup and salad then not being able to eat the meat and rice because you filled up on the soup and salad before.
I say just stick to the damn business which is the sex, no games, no BS, no time wasting. If you want cuddling, find a legit romantic relationship. A FWB satisfies a need for sex no more,
Cuddling with a FWB is like going to a Japanese steakhouse and filling up in the soup and salad then not being able to eat the meat and rice because you filled up on the soup and salad before.
I say just stick to the damn business which is the sex, no games, no BS, no time wasting. If you want cuddling, find a legit romantic relationship. A FWB satisfies a need for sex no more,
FB is not the topic.. FWB. Friends have more of an interest than just sex. Sheesh...
FWB isn't really my deal, so I don't get how it works. But it does seem like it would be confusing to have a no strings relationship and then start cuddling sometimes. So you tell me, those of you with FWB, do you cuddle after you hangout with your "friend?"
Okay, so if this is a friend whom I am attracted to so much that I sleep with him, it means that I like being close to him. Which means, I want to cuddle. If there is no desire to cuddle and be close, there is no desire for sex either.
My main reason for having sex in general is to be close to someone and feel him. Sex for me includes cuddling, it starts out with cuddling many times and ends with it. Actually, I go one step further, I would even prefer sleeping there all night instead of going home. If I am not comfortably sleeping in the same bed, I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex either.
I've had "cuddling only" friends also. Cuddling is something I really, really miss when I am single. I am a happy single but I do miss the cuddling part. I had to give up my cuddle friend because he got too attached.
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