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Women if you want us to go "south of the border" please keep the area clean and with a decent smell.
One of the main reasons I don't go south on some cases (I love to go south of the border and for what I'm told I give an excellent performance down there) is because the thing smell like a seafood market.
I've noticed most women complain her man is not taking care of that area, but you gotta help us.
Hey for us men we need to take care of our Johnson as well. You don't want a barbed wire for the lady when she is giving us a BJ.
It depends on what kind of bad and/or if they are willing to work on it with me.
Incompatibility makes for bad sex often IMO but I've been lucky overall.
I did date a gentleman this year and the sex started bad and never got better. We didnt click that well in any area but he was pleasant and he seemed to like me so I kept trying. When you pick 'no sex' over 'bad sex' then it is time to go.
Part of the problem was he couldnt stay hard, he blamed it on the condoms since he wasn't used to them. It was too much effort the starting and restarting and it never improved. I feel pretty shallow over that BUT he was also selfish in other ways, like "Your orgasm? what's that?"
Anyway, 30 or so seconds where he gave it to me good was nice but couldn't sustain anything lasting.
I'd be very uncomfortable with my brother discussing my sex life much less judge me for having standards for it, anyone else?
My brother and I have never had a problem talking about our sex lives. Even my son has told me more than I really wanted to know about his, but its not like we go into the explicit details.
To answer the OP yes I would break up with someone over continued bad sex. Although sex is not everything, sexual compatibility is an important part of a romantic relationship for those who are sexual.
I like what one poster said about when you would choose no sex over the bad sex.
And I think a couple gals and I must have had sex with the same guys.
If they where beyond all repair and incapable of learning or caring to learn....probably.
But, that signals a much larger issue than "just" sex...so it writes itself in to nonexistence
If it was a physical incompatibility it wouldn't be much of a relationship from the get go..if you don't do it for me because of reasons out of your control it's a general incompatibility.
I've stopped seeing guys for this. Life is too short, IMO, and somethings are unteachable. I haven't been with many men who won't do oral, but what I consider "bad in bed" is not being perceptive enough to be able to adjust what he's doing. One guy did foreplay way too hard, stabbing at me like he was pressing a radio button, and it hurt. I told him I like it softer, but after a few seconds he'd go right back to his way. It was like "this is my method, my only method, and I'm not capable of tailoring anything to you as an individual." At one point, even though I tried to be positive (saying "I love it like THIS, and taking his hand and showing him, vs "not so hard!") he got mad at me, saying his ex liked it that hard, and implying something was wrong with me for not liking it.
With a person like that, there's just no chemistry, we don't mesh, and there's no point continuing.
I also consider a guy not good in bed if he is very passive, and the confidence to take charge in the bedroom really can't be taught or faked, either.
My sentiments as well.
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