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OP, first your situation will probably never change due to your mindset; and second, you have to stop viewing women as sooooo different from men. How do you talk to a woman? Just like you would talk to a guy. You shouldn't even know if you want to date her UNTIL you talk to her. How else would you know if you have interest or compatibility?
It's working for millions of people, so you know it's you, not the actual action of asking women out.
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Some men have to do a lot of work to get a date and pursue a woman. Women get to just sit back, wait for the offers to come and and then pick the one they like best. Quite a difference.
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Hardly. Most women have to work at it, too. Or else resign themselves to life without companionship for long stretches. Or both.
actually ruth he has a point, if he is stupid and tries to maul every woman he meets. augie i keep saying it isnt the fact that you approach a woman, its all in HOW you approach her. if you go after her like every other guy she has ever met, you are going to get shot down and deservedly so. but if you approach her with confidence and respect, and treat her like a proper lady should be treated, and dont try to force anything on her, and keep it interesting, she will respond positively to your approach.
i tease all the ladies here in good fun, because i am confident in myself, and in them to have a sense of humor, and sometimes i cross a line a bit, ok sometimes i not only cross the line, but i erase it redraw it further down the road, and then obliterate that line completely. but i do it in steps, and again its all in good fun.
one more thing, i also have a lot of respect for the ladies, and i back off when they tell me to. so again, approach with respect and confidence, and see better results with women.
i tease all the ladies here in good fun, because i am confident in myself, and in them to have a sense of humor, and sometimes i cross a line a bit, ok sometimes i not only cross the line, but i erase it redraw it further down the road, and then obliterate that line completely. but i do it in steps, and again its all in good fun.
one more thing, i also have a lot of respect for the ladies, and i back off when they tell me to. so again, approach with respect and confidence, and see better results with women.
In other words, you are yourself and treat women with respect..... and..... imagine it..... like people.
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Not true. Since most women get approached on some level, you don't have to work at getting approached.
Not true. Most women rarely get approached. Most women are average to below-average, so their best chances are to try to meet people by joining groups, clubs, activities, etc. They don't get approached in public or at parties, or wherever guys do their approaching. And bear in mind, a lot of guys are too shy or too passive to approach anyway.
Not true. Most women rarely get approached. Most women are average to below-average, so their best chances are to try to meet people by joining groups, clubs, activities, etc. They don't get approached in public or at parties, or wherever guys do their approaching. And bear in mind, a lot of guys are too shy or too passive to approach anyway.
Not true. Most women "don't count" attention from undesirables. Most women absolutely do get approached. Maybe not as soon as they leave the house and all day long, but they do get approached. CD is not representative of the real world. There's no way I(as a guy) gets approached more than the average woman. Not possible.
Not true. Most women "don't count" attention from undesirables. Most women absolutely do get approached. Maybe not as soon as they leave the house and all day long, but they do get approached. CD is not representative of the real world. There's no way I(as a guy) gets approached more than the average woman. Not possible.
We've already had this conversation on another thread. But rest assured, women know women better than guys do. We know our gf's don't get approached, even by undesirables. Life for a lot of single women is pretty mundane and uneventful.
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