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The job thing is tricky. In a lot of jobs you're not supposed to use the customer base as your dating pool. It would depend on what the job is. Staffing a tourist information booth? Fine. Being a Wal-Mart greeter? You don't want to be overly friendly, or you'll discourage women from shopping there. A cashier at one of the grocery stores in town where I live was blatantly coming on to some of the women, and he got in trouble. He doesn't work there anymore.
Oh I know. A job is difficult, obviously because you're working. But it's worth a try, depending on the job-like you said.
So you are not trying to rile stinkerr up eh? But then you call him dense. As for your first I sincerely doubt it.
actually i am trying to make him think about hings, but if he gets riled up, thats his business, and it just means he isnt thinking like he should.
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I disagree with this. In general, I've found that most women find the same men attractive and only go for the lower tier (in terms of looks) men when they find something wrong with the very attractive guys (players, too clingy, etc.).
there are some women that will chase men because of their looks, but for the most part, women are deeper than that. like i said, i am no prize to be sure, but i have had women chase me.
there are some women that will chase men because of their looks, but for the most part, women are deeper than that. like i said, i am no prize to be sure, but i have had women chase me.[/quote]
I disagree with this. In general, I've found that most women find the same men attractive and only go for the lower tier (in terms of looks) men when they find something wrong with the very attractive guys (players, too clingy, etc.).
You'd be surprised. "Attractive" is very much in the eye of the beholder. I had friends in college who went after the quiet, geeky types. They liked their personality, felt the guys would be stable and steady, and probably found their looks attractive in a quirky way, too. There's no rhyme or reason sometimes, to what people will find attractive.
He's not bragging, he's using himself as an example. He means to say, if he can do it, you can too. The fact that you thought he was bragging says more about you than it does about him.
there are some women that will chase men because of their looks, but for the most part, women are deeper than that. like i said, i am no prize to be sure, but i have had women chase me.
I've had women chase me too. I'm average looking and short. But my tall good-looking friends have women throwing themselves at them almost non-stop. There's no comparison.
He's not bragging, he's using himself as an example. He means to say, if he can do it, you can too. The fact that you thought he was bragging says more about you than it does about him.
If a person regularly toots his own horn thats called bragging. He's done this in innumerable threads. As for me being able to do it, I think not. If that were true it would have happened long before now. Besides I have understood for years that I am unattractive to women.
I've had women chase me too. I'm average looking and short. But my tall good-looking friends have women throwing themselves at them almost non-stop. There's no comparison.
But does there need to be a comparison? Why competition. If you get women, then you're doing well. Why measure on how many other women a person has?
You'd be surprised. "Attractive" is very much in the eye of the beholder. I had friends in college who went after the quiet, geeky types. They liked their personality, felt the guys would be stable and steady, and probably found their looks attractive in a quirky way, too. There's no rhyme or reason sometimes, to what people will find attractive.
There is such a thing as objectively attractive people. These people get the majority of the interest from the opposite sex. Sure, a short, socially awkward, geeky guy may get a woman or 2 in his life, but it will be nowhere near what the tall, good-looking guy gets. Not even close.
You could say that these women who find unconventional guys attractive are the exceptions to the rule. And, of course, the exceptions don't disprove the rule.
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