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First off I'm neither good guy or bad boy...sorta in the middle (so I'm told). But a friend (girl) told me recently she likes bad boys . My response to her was I would not have any sympathy for her once her "bad boy" cheats on her or smacks her around. Im no knight . She knows the risks going in so she will deal with it but I refuse to play the "guy friend who listens to her problems role" sorry dear...not happening. Anyways, she wasn't too happy about that but I don't care because if you're dumb enough to enter into that type of relationship...you deserve what ya get. Am I too harsh?
I haven't entertained that good boy bad boy crap since I was 16.
It's irrelevant and childish to me.
Agreed. I loved bad boys when I was a stupid teenager. Now, I want a guy I have common interests with who's not a jerk, but at the same time I don't want a wussy doormat either. And these men exist. My ex friend got one of them. The thing is finding them while they're being single lol
With the OP, I don't think it was too harsh. Maybe your words may have been to harsh, but not the basic idea of your statement.
First off I'm neither good guy or bad boy...sorta in the middle (so I'm told). But a friend (girl) told me recently she likes bad boys . My response to her was I would not have any sympathy for her once her "bad boy" cheats on her or smacks her around. Im no knight . She knows the risks going in so she will deal with it but I refuse to play the "guy friend who listens to her problems role" sorry dear...not happening. Anyways, she wasn't too happy about that but I don't care because if you're dumb enough to enter into that type of relationship...you deserve what ya get. Am I too harsh?
Why are you friends with someone you don't respect?
I just want a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets . When i say lady in the streets i am not talking about a hooker just a woman that knows how to act like a woman and when the lights go out is a freak.
Some girls like "la vida loca" (The crazy life) and a "bad boy" seems to give them the adrenaline rush they want.
Some girls don't want to settle down and want just to go through the motions. Most wake up and realize life isn't gonna wait for them and change, others just have 30 something or even 40 and they still show no sign of being mature at all. Or they become codependent.
If your friend OP likes to be misstreated well...let her knock herself out with that. Some people need to learn the hard way.
I've never been into bad boys, but it always seemed to me the type that did, did it for fun/sex. The same way I think some guys go after "bad girls" for fun/sex. It's nothing serious. Women going after bad boys might for a combination of reasons, but to me, it seems like most tend to be younger and not wanting to settle down just yet. They are sowing their wild oats.
I also think that some women that always go after the bad men, even past the collage years (and even marry them) tend to have self esteem issues. They feel they "deserve" to be treated poorly for some reason or they can't do any better.
I'd say if you are a good guy and you fall for a woman who likes bad boys... you are barking up the wrong tree. She's got issues. Try someone else who doesn't go after the bad apples.
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. My response to her was I would not have any sympathy for her once her "bad boy" cheats on her or smacks her around. Im no knight 
. She knows the risks going in so she will deal with it but I refuse to play the "guy friend who listens to her problems role" sorry dear...not happening. Anyways, she wasn't too happy about that but I don't care because if you're dumb enough to enter into that type of relationship...you deserve what ya get. Am I too harsh?