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Old 10-28-2014, 02:41 PM
 
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Met a girl around a month ago. I was sort of interested but never tried anything. I get a text from her saying she thinks I'm great and enjoys having me as a friend but she's not interested. And she only wanted to make it clear just in case her vibe was right. I usually hang out with her in a group. I haven't bothered texting back at all yet. Not sure what I should say. Yes I was kind of interested but I never bothered to try anything I guess I still gave a flirtatious vibe even though I was just being me. should I even text her back or throw her off to make her think I didn't like her like that?
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So you NEVER made any kind of move to make her think you were interested? Something must have triggered her to text you preemptively like that ...
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:45 PM
 
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Met a girl around a month ago. I was sort of interested but never tried anything. I get a text from her saying she thinks I'm great and enjoys having me as a friend but she's not interested. And she only wanted to make it clear just in case her vibe was right. I usually hang out with her in a group. I haven't bothered texting back at all yet. Not sure what I should say. Yes I was kind of interested but I never bothered to try anything I guess I still gave a flirtatious vibe even though I was just being me. should I even text her back or throw her off to make her think I didn't like her like that?
She obviously read you right, so denying it would look silly.

Play it cool. Don't act offended, don't act rejected, just be cool.

Something like, No worries, see you next time we hang out at the same place.
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:46 PM
 
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I probably wouldn't bother responding to that at all. If you feel obligated to send some type of response, something like "Good to know" would work just fine.

I'd be curious to know exactly what her text said. Although she was correct, it was presumptious of her so I'm wondering what her motivation was.
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:47 PM
 
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No I honestly didn't. I have no idea what could have made her think that. Any idea on what I could say to her?
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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So you NEVER made any kind of move to make her think you were interested? Something must have triggered her to text you preemptively like that ...
He just was more transparent than he realized. Girl obviously just picked up on his interest
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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No I honestly didn't. I have no idea what could have made her think that. Any idea on what I could say to her?
"That's alright, I wasn't looking for a relationship anyway."
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:51 PM
 
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I probably wouldn't bother responding to that at all. If you feel obligated to send some type of response, something like "Good to know" would work just fine.

I'd be curious to know exactly what her text said. Although she was correct, it was presumptious of her so I'm wondering what her motivation was.
"Good to know" sounds a bit rude in my opinion.

If I wanted to be nice I'd say, "That's fine, I was just being friendly when we hung out as a group, I apologize if I gave you the impression that it was more than that."

Or you could say, "that is very cute that you were thinking of me like that and changed your mind. I'm glad you came to your senses because I only saw you as a friend."

Or if you want to be a jerk you could say, "Is your friend single? She's the one I was interested in."
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:52 PM
 
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Ignore it, and send her a picture of your D and ask "How do you feel about butt stuff?"
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Old 10-28-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Ignore it, and send her a picture of your D and ask "How do you feel about butt stuff?"
That escalated quickly.
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