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Guys have done crazier things to me and eventually, when you ignore them enough, they stop. I didn't act "outraged" or "annoyed" or "disgusted" I just don't act at all because all attention will be interpreted as "You care about me, don't you?"
Don't send angry text or make angry phone calls. Just ignore that. If police cannot do anything, obviously he is not doing anything illegal or anything like that.
If you have a male friend or relative you can trust, perhaps ask him to keep an eye on you and your house in case this person is crazy.
This is such a shame. Basically, this guy really likes you and is doing a bunch of romantic gestures to win you over, so to speak. However, you interpret this as creepy and call the cops on him. I would say that reflects poorly on you OP, not him.
Hopefully, he will wisen up and stop spending money on you.
about the best i can offer is to send him an email suggesting that he stop or you will send a mechanic after him. in this case a mechanic would be a hit man.
I have to find out. what is his email address,
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Originally Posted by chrissycs
How do you know for sure that it is him??Maybe you have a different secret admirer?
Of course, I'm not in your shoes, but I think I'd be flattered and a little tipped over by so much attention. If it's making you uncomfortable though - and it sounds like it is - make sure it is actually him. Is there anyway you can contact him??
once a while something nice I would appreciate but this is too much. And I think it is going too far. The first incident happened at work so that is why I know this is him. That incident I am not comfortable to pull it out on a public forum so I skipped that one.
Guys have done crazier things to me and eventually, when you ignore them enough, they stop. I didn't act "outraged" or "annoyed" or "disgusted" I just don't act at all because all attention will be interpreted as "You care about me, don't you?"
Don't send angry text or make angry phone calls. Just ignore that. If police cannot do anything, obviously he is not doing anything illegal or anything like that.
If you have a male friend or relative you can trust, perhaps ask him to keep an eye on you and your house in case this person is crazy.
This is such a shame. Basically, this guy really likes you and is doing a bunch of romantic gestures to win you over, so to speak. However, you interpret this as creepy and call the cops on him. I would say that reflects poorly on you OP, not him.
Hopefully, he will wisen up and stop spending money on you.
We don't know if this is the case. He said, "He is going to be her daughter's new step dad." That is crossing the line.
This is such a shame. Basically, this guy really likes you and is doing a bunch of romantic gestures to win you over, so to speak. However, you interpret this as creepy andcall the cops on him. I would say that reflects poorly on you OP, not him.
Hopefully, he will wisen up and stop spending money on you.
I did not call the cops on previous incidents that is focus to me but when that clown jumped on the stage and did the crazy thing I thought it is wiser to inform the police because there is a 8 yr old child involve. If he did not do that I don't think I will even bother about this.
I did not call the cops on previous incidents that is focus to me but when that clown jumped on the stage and did the crazy thing I thought it is wiser to inform the police because there is a 8 yr old child involve. If he did not do that I don't think I will even bother about this.
You did the right thing. The best thing you can do is document everything so the police at least have a file of all of the incidents, not just the one involving your daughter. If this escalates, they need to know it's a pattern of behaviour.
This is such a shame. Basically, this guy really likes you and is doing a bunch of romantic gestures to win you over, so to speak. However, you interpret this as creepy and call the cops on him. I would say that reflects poorly on you OP, not him.
Hopefully, he will wisen up and stop spending money on you.
It's amazing to me that you think she should be flattered by his unwelcome advances, especially dragging her child into it, when she already made it clear she was not interested.
I think your post in support of this guy reflects something quite telling about you.
You did the right thing. The best thing you can do is document everything so the police at least have a file of all of the incidents, not just the one involving your daughter. If this escalates, they need to know it's a pattern of behaviour.
How disturbing.
Thank you for your understanding. I also kept a log about all these incidents. First incident I found it funny yes some young guy try to show that he care but again and again and then in a function of my daughter that is too much. Because I have no clue what is the point of this. Indeed this is disturbing.
For me this is completely a madness sorry to say like that I did not even know where he lives or how to contact.
How does he know where YOU live? How does he know where to send the balloons? How did he know your daughter was in a dance competition, and where, and exactly when? And how did he know you were in NY and at what hotel? Was it in the news?
It sounds to me like he has a friend at your work who's giving him all this information. Someone at your job is helping him. There's no other explanation, especially for the incident with your daughter.
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I have to find out. what is his email address, 
