When Do I Stop Chasing Her?

[UnaWilde]

Originally Posted by EddieOlSkool

For those saying "ignoring works when it's genuine", there also has to be a situation where the woman gets lots of male attention and she knows it. Believe it or not, some women either don't receive a ton of male attention, receive it from guys they deem unattractive, OR receive attention from good looking guys but are unaware of it. It's just a one-size-fits-all piece of advice that assumes most women live under the same circumstances.

I get mixed opinions about the ignoring part

[UnaWilde]

Originally Posted by sylvianfisher

Outside of that, personally I don't consider the chase-until-she-caught-me or the chase-until-I-wear-her-down as the norm. Be careful how much you absorb from TV or movies, if that is where your romantic ideals are most reinforced.

My friend got his fiance this way. He invested so much time pursuing her, she finally gave in. I don't consider it to be the norn either, just shows what persistance can do with an attractive girl used to getting male attention.

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by UnaWilde

I don't want to be like the other guys giving up so easily.



She still sends me mixed signals, it's not really clear she wants me to forget about her.

Eh, I would given up a long time ago.

Too many women out there that would show interest for me to be chasing someone who's throwing me mixed signals all over the place. Despise that sort of game playing.

[UnaWilde]

Originally Posted by NewYorker11356

Eh, I would given up a long time ago.

Too many women out there that would show interest for me to be chasing someone who's throwing me mixed signals all over the place. Despise that sort of game playing.

Most of my problems stem from being attracted to complicated, mixed signal women.