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I've had a few dates but mostly they've been from OLD or setup by a friend. Say I know a girl who I like and seem to have chemistry with would it be better for me to just straight up ask "Can I take you out on a date?" or be more subtle and ask "I'd like to have some coffee with you sometime"?
If you want to take her to dinner and a movie then ask her if she would go to dinner and a movie with you.
If you want to take her for coffee then ask her for coffee, or a walk in the park, or a drive to the beach.
Be forward, direct and don't play with words, that is just downright annoying.
If you ask her directly what you would like then there is no guessing for anyone and don't text, call her and confirm the date, time and what you are going to do.
Alright then. What if I'm a little shy or nervous? Cute or turn-off?
If she likes you, it won't matter. She won't notice, she'll just hear the invitation. If she's the judgmental type and would think you're uncool for being nervous, she's not your type, anyway.
Unless they are a co-worker, just ask them out and don't be shy about it ( even if you are )
Haven't you see all the threads about how women like men that are confident. ??
Asking a woman out directly shows testicular fortitude.
If you ask her to have coffee..What happens when the coffee's all gone? Was it just friends having coffee? Was it a date? You still have to ask her out on a real date. But what if she thought you guys were just hanging out as friends?
If both sides like the pictures they saw in the profile, then ask, but ask sooner than later. If there's hesitation on the guy's end, the girl will translate that as in you're not interested in her so she'll move on.
Might as well be direct. That way you get your answer and move on faster. No point in beating around the bush, dropping hints for weeks only for her to meet somebody else.
Alright then. What if I'm a little shy or nervous? Cute or turn-off?
Being able to be relaxed is one of the ultimate goals so you always want to get away from being nervous. One thing that works for me is "if you are worried it is going to fail then you already failed".
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