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Old 12-09-2014, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Women how would you feel if a guy took you out just for the fun of your company but did not really ever try to pursue sex or even kissing because he figured you were too complicated and simply got that satisfied with escorts instead?
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Old 12-09-2014, 10:52 AM
 
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I'd feel that man is a friend... because that's what friends do.
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Old 12-09-2014, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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I'd feel that man is a friend... because that's what friends do.
He wouldn't not be pursuing because he didn't want to. It's an actual date that can escalate but he isn't going to push / drive to sex etc.
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Old 12-09-2014, 11:00 AM
 
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Women how would you feel if a guy took you out just for the fun of your company but did not really ever try to pursue sex or even kissing because he figured you were too complicated and simply got that satisfied with escorts instead?
"Too complicated?" I'd say something is seriously wrong with him if he can't discuss a topic more complex than the weather just because the person sitting across from him has two X chromosomes.
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Old 12-09-2014, 11:00 AM
 
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What does "escalate" mean in the self-help vernacular?
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Old 12-09-2014, 12:06 PM
 
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I would feel he was a weirdo and avoid him like the plague.
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Old 12-09-2014, 12:10 PM
 
Location: NY
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I would imagine this guy would at best come across as very shy, but in all honesty sounds extremely wierd. Honestly, who would date, purposely not pursue anything or make any moves, and then go and hire escorts?
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Old 12-09-2014, 12:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's a dude in a dress.
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Old 12-09-2014, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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That's a dude in a dress.
what lol. The guy or the girl? Dudes in dresses date girls and then visit escorts?

Or you're saying this is effectively how girls date? They don't go for sex etc b/c they're doing someone else on call on the side?
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Old 12-09-2014, 12:46 PM
 
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Women how would you feel if a guy took you out just for the fun of your company but did not really ever try to pursue sex or even kissing because he figured you were too complicated and simply got that satisfied with escorts instead?
Why would you date someone you think is too compliciated? What would be the point? You mean, just to hang out as friends? Women are into being friends with dudes, that would prob'ly be fine if you're clear with her from the start. In which case, it's not dating, it's hanging out. It's a rare dude who just wants to be friends with women, though. Just sayin
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