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Old 12-15-2014, 07:45 PM
 
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I don't want to get back with her. Just to get in touch with her.
It's not just about what you want though. She's made it VERY clear time and time again that she doesn't want to get in touch with you and you need to respect that. When you try for "two solid weeks" to talk to her and then try calling her in a "saddened fit" only to find that your number has been blocked, you aren't respecting that.
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Old 12-15-2014, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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It's not just about what you want though. She's made it VERY clear time and time again that she doesn't want to get in touch with you and you need to respect that. When you try for "two solid weeks" to talk to her and then try calling her in a "saddened fit" only to find that your number has been blocked, you aren't respecting that.
The time between re-blocking and the call was over 3 months.
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Old 12-15-2014, 08:38 PM
 
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OP it isn't about the girl at all. Try to analyze it at a deeper level and you will find it is all about you.

In layman terms , you are trying to find what is missing in you in that person without realizing that. The values you admire in someone to make you get attracted to them are actually the values you hold dear. Find your true nature and the girl will cease to matter to you like that.
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Old 12-15-2014, 08:47 PM
 
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The time between re-blocking and the call was over 3 months.
She's not worth the time. She's playing some kind of game, but it's one you can never win. She just doesn't like you in that way but she for some reason enjoys playing with your emotions.

You need to stop contacting her. It's over. Some people you just can't stay in touch with. They just weren't meant to be in your circle.

There are women from my past that I think about from time to time, but I never try to contact them. We just weren't meant to be.
Leave her alone please.
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Old 12-16-2014, 12:34 AM
 
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smh
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Old 12-16-2014, 12:41 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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Stop, please stop, stop, stop, stop.

She plays games with your head, and you need to remove all women like that. Don't wonder "what could have been" with girls like that because the "could have been" could be a ruined life.

Obsessions are bad.
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Old 12-16-2014, 07:46 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Leave Shayla the f*** alone!!!!

She doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.

Get it through your head please.
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Old 12-16-2014, 08:38 AM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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You all are right.

I practically tortured myself this year for her. And for that I've been unfair to the girl who wants to see me now.

In fact, since I have 2 girls wanting to date me this Christmas, so she should be history.
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Old 12-16-2014, 09:19 AM
 
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You all are right.

I practically tortured myself this year for her. And for that I've been unfair to the girl who wants to see me now.

In fact, since I have 2 girls wanting to date me this Christmas, so she should be history.
Ok, so having said that, can we assume that this will be your last thread/post about Shayla?
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Old 12-16-2014, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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Ok, so having said that, can we assume that this will be your last thread/post about Shayla?
Yeah. This is it. I'm trying to leave home right now, applying for colleges around the country. She popped up in my head recently because of the holidays and stuff.
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