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Old 01-12-2015, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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This hot older woman at work is seriously flirty with me and we seem like a good match. Just now she walked past and gave me a killer smile while I was talking with someone else and I think that hurt her (that I didn't notice and smile back). We've gone in and out of this more than once. Should I ask her out to eat or something after work?
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Old 01-12-2015, 02:39 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Sure, if it's ok with your wife and her husband!
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:10 PM
 
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How do you know that she give you a "killer smile" if you didn't notice?
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:35 PM
 
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How could you tell she was hurt?
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:39 PM
 
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This hot older woman at work is seriously flirty with me and we seem like a good match. Just now she walked past and gave me a killer smile while I was talking with someone else and I think that hurt her (that I didn't notice and smile back). We've gone in and out of this more than once. Should I ask her out to eat or something after work?
Don't date people at work. Trouble.
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:46 PM
 
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This hot older woman at work is seriously flirty with me and we seem like a good match. Just now she walked past and gave me a killer smile while I was talking with someone else and I think that hurt her (that I didn't notice and smile back). We've gone in and out of this more than once. Should I ask her out to eat or something after work?
If you're interested, go for it. If she doesn't reciprocate, no loss.
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:49 PM
 
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Why in the world would you voluntarily try to have an office romance? They rarely end well for either one involved and can cause lots of unnecessary turmoil, drama and someone getting terminated.

IF you think the risk is worth it then ask the woman out however, I don't understand how you could possibly know that she was hurt that you did not return her smile after you stated you didn't notice she smiled at you when you were busy with someone else.
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:51 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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How could you tell she was hurt?

The lines of anguish on her face?
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:54 PM
 
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imagination running wild³
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Don't date people you work with. Ever!
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