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Old 01-15-2015, 12:26 AM
 
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Perhaps she caught wind of this thread.

 
Old 01-15-2015, 03:27 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Lafleur View Post
Based on my past experience with women, those who are interested make time and make it a priority to talk to their guy.

She is not doing these things. Additionally, she seemed uninterested on the phone tonight. And rather than call back to continue the conversation, she basically texted me that her phone died to indicate that the conversation was over. No good bye. No good night. Nothing. Therefore, I do not think she's very interested in me.

It really is that simple.
Strange. If she seemed interested during the sex, maybe she got really mad about not hearing from you the next day if that's what she's used to.
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:39 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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So your current theory is that she had sex with you more or less out of boredom? Your dates with her lasted 8-10 hours because she had nothing better to do?

Well, I must say, it's original. I've never heard that theory before. We'll see this weekend, I guess. Best of luck.
No, it's not my theory. However, it's completely possible. People do strange things to get what they want or need (attention, physical intimacy, etc.), Ruth. I'm surprised in all your years you have not bore witness to that.

That said, it's just as baffling to me as it is to you. All I can tell you is this. The women whom I've dated in the past who were genuinely interested me have acted in a different manner than she has. She may still be interested in me, for her to want to go out again, but she may not be that interested in me. Of course, I won't be any closer to the answer to that question until after Friday.
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:40 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Strange. If she seemed interested during the sex, maybe she got really mad about not hearing from you the next day if that's what she's used to.
I mean, we did it twice and laid around in her bed making out for a few hours, so FWIW.
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:45 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Did you send her the text I suggested to send?
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:50 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Did you send her the text I suggested to send?
You mean about me being a dbag? No, of course not. That's ridiculous. I even talked to my female best friend last night and she said it wouldn't have bothered her. I think you guys are trying to make an issue out of nothing to make me look like the bad guy in all of this (which I'm not).

I called her, her phone died, she didn't think it was worth it to call me back. End of story.

Still sound like a girl that's really interested in me?
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:50 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Lafleur, you still dont seem to understand WHY it's important to make a woman, who just gave you a very private part of herself to you, feel special the next day if you want a relationship with her. I don't understand why you are still fighting this basic human nature courtesy and justifying it with "but I told her that night".
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:51 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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You mean about me being a dbag? No, of course not. That's ridiculous. I even talked to my female best friend last night and she said it wouldn't have bothered her. I think you guys are trying to make an issue out of nothing to make me look like the bad guy in all of this (which I'm not).
No. The "good morning, beautiful" text. Oh, you missed my post #283.
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:53 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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No. The "good morning, beautiful" text. Oh, you missed my post.
Based on how our conversation ended last night, I don't think she could care less about a text like that. Honestly.
 
Old 01-15-2015, 06:57 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Based on how our conversation ended last night, I don't think she could care less about a text like that. Honestly.
So... ...okay. Nothing.

I like texts like that, though, especially if a guy fked up and owes me some attention. OK.
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