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Originally Posted by indiannative91
you act like its so simple to just get up and leave someone and never talk to them again its not that simple this man knows where i live, knows where i work, he is crazy insane
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It's pretty easy, unless you don't want the help and are addicted to drama. Many battered women are like this. I'm not demeaning the issue, my own mother was beaten repeatedly for 5 years until she left her abuser.
If you don't want help and are just here to complain, we can't help you.
You live with your parents. They put a roof over your head. They obviously care about you. Here are some very simple steps. If you don't want to follow them, you will continue to live this life.
*Tell your parents the truth about EVERYTHING.
*Get a lawyer if you believe he will spread videos. Not sure how much this will help, but it may give you some peace.
*Don't take nude photos or make pornographic movies ever again
*Notify the police of the situation. Document every single time this man harasses you. If it's not in text/email, write it down. Record the conversations.
*Tell this man your relationship is over. Stop seeing him. Don't be cute with him or even talk to him.
*Stop drinking. You make stupid decisions when you drink.
*Go to therapy, or a support group for domestic abuse at the VERY least.
*Remember many women are doing this now, have before you, and will after you. You're not alone, or a special casein any way.
*Stop asking for advice if you don't want to accept it.
Wishing you the best of luck. You're young.
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