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okay well technically i did not sleep with anyone but we did exchange some raunchy photos and I myself do consider that as cheating. but how do i tell the person i am in a relationship with
we have been together 8 months and its just i dont know how i would do this.......
i feel terrible, dirty, nasty and i didnt even physically sleep with anyone
its a shame i dont know why i did this
i'm afraid to tell because in the past accusations of cheating have been made and messages have been seen and things became so physical we got into a fist fight which resulted in me with a black eye and bloody nose
should i end this relationship??
If you're going to tell him, you might as well end the relationship, yes. And really, if he's physically abusive, you should end the relationship whether you're going to tell him or not.
If you're going to tell him, you might as well end the relationship, yes. And really, if he's physically abusive, you should end the relationship whether you're going to tell him or not.
i told him and he hit me
actually gave me a black and blue on the side of my face i am officially done i need help and i need to be a lone until i learn to appreciate who i am as a person and i learn to bring something into any relationship i am in
i told him and he hit me
actually gave me a black and blue on the side of my face i am officially done i need help and i need to be a lone until i learn to appreciate who i am as a person and i learn to bring something into any relationship i am in
i told him and he hit me
actually gave me a black and blue on the side of my face i am officially done i need help and i need to be a lone until i learn to appreciate who i am as a person and i learn to bring something into any relationship i am in
i need to learn to love myself
Well, at least you lived to tell this incredible story.
Whoever on here told her to tell him is to blame in my opinion. Knowing good well enough she isn't stable at this point.
no i just want to be done completely no traces of this in my life at all
i am so hurt because i have done so much just last night he had an injury on his wrist (prior to hitting me) and even so i took care of him and bandaged his wrist as i tried to leave he prevented me from leaving and i shoved him and he punched me on the side of my head so hard i literally saw a light flash
i dont think i deserve this but i need to stay away from it i always come back because yes i love him and we have been through a lot but i have had enough my own parents have never hit me like that
i told him and he hit me
actually gave me a black and blue on the side of my face i am officially done i need help and i need to be a lone until i learn to appreciate who i am as a person and i learn to bring something into any relationship i am in
i need to learn to love myself
Well least he didn't do worse. When you hadn't logged on in a while, I figured something had happened. Thankfully you were dead or in the hospital like I figured.
And yes, you need to tell your parents exactly what happened, get protection from this guy, then start looking over your life and figuring out what you want out of it, and being more logical in making choices and learning to embrace and enjoy life without being reckless about it.
So staying out of relationships and working on yourself and building up your confidence is a wonderful idea.
You say you go back because you like him. But why like a man who treats you worse than a dog? Is it because you don't think you'll find better? Or you hate being single? or is the sex just really good? In any case, you have to decide if your love for him is so unconditional that you'll let him beat you forever, because he will long as you're with him. If you have been together so long, and he hasn't learned to not hit you, or has no problems hurting you, he doesn't love you. I mean, why batter and bruise someone you loved?
So, you have to learn to walk away, and mean it. because going back won't make things better, and he'll keep treating you like crap long as you allow it.
Last edited by HappyRain; 02-10-2015 at 06:30 AM..
Well least he didn't do worse. When you hadn't logged on in a while, I figured something had happened. Thankfully you were dead or in the hospital like I figured.
And yes, you need to tell your parents exactly what happened, get protection from this guy, then start looking over your life and figuring out what you want out of it, and being more logical in making choices and learning to embrace and enjoy life without being reckless about it.
So staying out of relationships and working on yourself and building up your confidence is a wonderful idea.
You say you go back because you like him. But why like a man who treats you wrose than a dog? Is it because you don't think you'll find better? Or you hate being single? or is the sex just really good? AIn any case, you have to decide if your love for him is so unconditional that you'll let him beat you forever, because he will long as you're with him. If you have been together so long, and he hasn't learned to not hit you, or has no problems hurting you, he doesn't love you. I mean, why batter and bruise someone you loved?
So, you have to learn to walk away, and mean it. because going back won't make things better, and he'll keep treating you like crap long as you allow it.
what is sick is that whole time he hit me and knocked me to the floor he video tapped me on the floor tried to get me to confess that i hit him first when i never hit him i shoved him away from the door because i wanted to leave
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