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Yes and no. Sometimes it's because you're with the wrong person, other times it's because you're not trying hard enough. People forget they still need to try and build the excitement after the initial thrill is gone!
My fiance and I try and do fun new things. It can be silly. Like some nights we will do a dumb pinterest craft, cook dinner together, or play a new video game. A few weeks ago we randomly decided to play chess together. It's those kinds of things that get your interest back in someone. The daily routine kills romance, even for the hottest of flames over time.
It's all about effort.
Now if you have NOTHING in common, I don't see how that can work. I know a lot of people trying to fool themselves into thinking these kinds of relationships will work. I don't see how. I'm not talking you have to do everything together, but common ground is pretty much a requirement.
Also, talking is important to bond. You can buy "topic" books from any bookstore (or amazon). They are filled with random questions and are fun to sit down with your partner and talk. Meaningful conversation a few times a week is a healthy relationship builder. It's best if this isn't about work, the kids, or stress. Pick something new that will make both of you THINK and have some healthy debate. For example, do you think aliens exist? I don't know!
I've also noticed serving my fiance makes me a happier woman. I don't mean always cooking dinner and cleaning, but something simple like making his coffee every morning or putting his socks away when he meant to do it himself. Taking care of each other is important.
i ve done hard enought,believe me.i don t feel like anything is getting better.he is so hard to get, to understand and i can rich to his soul .he doesn t like to do anything.
So what's your question? You have done everything you can and he is clearly not interested.
Sounds like it's time to leave?
i am whith him since i was 17 ,34 now, we have a son ,and go were,i just feel like i am dead inside
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