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Old 02-28-2015, 06:34 PM
 
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There's this guy I'm into and I asked a mutual friend of ours about him. Basically our friend told me that he's very immature and childish, has no drive, catty in the sense that he speaks badly about his friends behind their backs, etc. He also gloats to everyone, and tells everyone everything when he's had sex with a girl. But our mutual friend did tell me that he's been attracted to me for a while, and that the concept of me is his ideal (i.e., the way I dress, my interests, etc.)

So I asked a female friend for advice, and she still thinks I should go for it. I don't really want to however. Obviously those are traits I don't want in someone I'm dating, but I wouldn't even be open to casually hook up with him since he likes to relay information so easily (if he didn't I would). My female friend just thinks I should still be open to it because I got out of a long-term relationship about a year ago, and she thinks I need to experience other guys.

Do you think I should just lower my standards and see how it goes?
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Old 02-28-2015, 06:36 PM
 
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No, he sounds awful.
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Old 02-28-2015, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So I asked a female friend for advice, and she still thinks I should go for it.
WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY? Tell her if he's so awesome, SHE should go for it.

Wait ... you WANT him to talk about having sex with you to your friends?????????
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Old 02-28-2015, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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He's sounds quite unappealing, but if your game, go for it. Hope your good, because all your friends will hear the details.
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Old 02-28-2015, 06:46 PM
 
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No, No and No. Respect yourself. He is not worth your time. What kind of friend would want to see you with a man of the character you described?
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Old 02-28-2015, 06:48 PM
 
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Uh no.

The guy sounds like a grade A Mcbutthole.
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Old 02-28-2015, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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No...why even risk getting involved/attached to someone like that - stay clear - gotta be better guys around than that.
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Old 02-28-2015, 07:40 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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No. Find a guy who meets your standards and see how that goes.
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Old 02-28-2015, 08:20 PM
 
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Stupid. Just walk away. Once you have sex with him your hormones will get going and you will be blinded even more. Save yourself a world of heartache.
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Old 02-28-2015, 08:48 PM
 
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Go for it, he sounds like a do it upper and quite the catch
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