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There's this guy I'm into and I asked a mutual friend of ours about him. Basically our friend told me that he's very immature and childish, has no drive, catty in the sense that he speaks badly about his friends behind their backs, etc. He also gloats to everyone, and tells everyone everything when he's had sex with a girl. But our mutual friend did tell me that he's been attracted to me for a while, and that the concept of me is his ideal (i.e., the way I dress, my interests, etc.)
So I asked a female friend for advice, and she still thinks I should go for it. I don't really want to however. Obviously those are traits I don't want in someone I'm dating, but I wouldn't even be open to casually hook up with him since he likes to relay information so easily (if he didn't I would). My female friend just thinks I should still be open to it because I got out of a long-term relationship about a year ago, and she thinks I need to experience other guys.
Do you think I should just lower my standards and see how it goes?
He's sounds quite unappealing, but if your game, go for it. Hope your good, because all your friends will hear the details.
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Go for it, he sounds like a do it upper and quite the catch
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