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Old 03-03-2015, 05:18 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Does tattoo means true love?
My ex girlfriend of 4 years(Jan 2011 to JanI 2015) showed of her girlfriends tattoo of my exes name on Instagram.

Ex says that her girlfriend "been through pain for her"

I'm a 27 year old guy BTW. Ex is 21 and her girlfriend is 24(they been together from October or November 2014 and in late january my ex's girlfriend who is 24 years old got my ex'sname tattoed on her)

I have no tattoos on me at all by the way and has not once had one.

P.S. Not to mention i haven't cheated on her once, notblied to her, been upfront to her , been there for her etc.

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Old 03-03-2015, 05:21 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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No.
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:21 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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No, a tattoo does not mean true love. Of course not!
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:21 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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I have never heard of a relationship being successful in the long-term if both parties fail to have each other's names tattooed on them.
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Not really. I have a tattoo of a butterfly on my shoulder. Doesn't mean I love them lol

It's just a nice gesture. But not a basis for saying it's true love. And it's a bit stupid, since if you break up, it's a bit awkward to go to bed with Amy while Jill is still tattooed across your chest lol

So, it's really a tad obsessive. Like fangirling over a celeb, and you have their posters all over your wall and on your computer.
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:23 PM
 
Location: SW Ohio
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Does tattoo means true love?.
Means ya shoulda used a magic marker if y'all aren't together anymore!

Jus sayin...

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Old 03-03-2015, 05:24 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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Okay, to clarify:

Your ex-girlfriend's new girlfriend got a tattoo of your ex-girlfriend's name? And your ex-girlfriend is saying that her current girlfriend "went through pain for her"?

If so, getting a tattoo of someones' name is ridiculous and juvenile. Hardly love. You're not missing out on anything, OP.
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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They do not show true love, unless 'true' unconditional love can be defined as being in the same emotional and psychological state as someone suffering from a mental illness.

Getting a tattoo like that is a sign of codependency and lack of a sense of self, or dependance on the relationship.
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:28 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Okay, to clarify:

Your ex-girlfriend's new girlfriend got a tattoo of your ex-girlfriend's name? And your ex-girlfriend is saying that her current girlfriend "went through pain for her"?

If so, getting a tattoo of someones' name is ridiculous and juvenile. Hardly love. You're not missing out on anything, OP.
Yes.

You clarified it right
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Old 03-03-2015, 05:30 PM
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I have one friend that did that. He eventually covered it up with another tattoo when him and his ex broke up.


I rarely see people doing that. I've heard of couples getting matching symbols signifying their relationship. Sure would be awkward if they broke up. Definitely less painful to cover with another tattoo than getting it removed
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