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Old 04-06-2015, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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It will be really interesting to see if the OP actually returns and clarifies her middle of the night post. I wouldn't assume any subtext, honestly, given the inane crap that gets regularly posted here.

 
Old 04-06-2015, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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Originally Posted by Nancy of Chatsworth View Post
I'm dating a younger guy and he has a strange fetish. He wants me to "mother" him. I'm not sure if this behavior is common among 20 something's? I'm about 12 years older than him and I find the behavior strange, but he gets so much pleasure from it.

Is this something I'm just not understanding?
What the heck is "mothering"? Do you cut his meat into bite sized pieces for him? Do you put ice cubes into his tea so it doesnt burn his mouth? You say "he gets pleasure from it" so are you saying this is something sexual? Sorry, but I always view first time posters who start really weird threads with more of a critical eye than more experienced posters. Usually because it always means someone is trolling. Odd that you choose to include "Chatsworth" in your name. I doubt that you actually live in Chatsworth and may have just chosen it because its the "porn capital" of the U.S.

So what are examples of this "mothering" that he "gets so much pleasure from"?

Last edited by Kings Gambit; 04-06-2015 at 10:22 AM..
 
Old 04-07-2015, 04:45 PM
 
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Well, there are some non-intimate things he likes me to do like fold his clothes and read to him, but he also likes to attach himself while we watch tv or a movie. He also enjoys being fed.

For me, it's liberating because he's a really sweet guy and I admire him. It's just so bizarre sometimes how much he gets into character.
 
Old 04-07-2015, 04:49 PM
 
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It's more a question for Dan Savage than Dr. Phil, but you probably never heard of him either.
I had no idea what the OP meant from the originating post either.

Guess I am just stupid
 
Old 04-08-2015, 04:59 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Originally Posted by Nancy of Chatsworth View Post
Well, there are some non-intimate things he likes me to do like fold his clothes and read to him, but he also likes to attach himself while we watch tv or a movie. He also enjoys being fed.
Thank you for clarifying because I had no idea what mothering means either. By attaching himself, do you mean nursing?
 
Old 04-08-2015, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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I would find this behavior completely repulsive in a grown man. Ewww.
 
Old 04-08-2015, 05:41 PM
 
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This will get old real soon.
Trade him for an adult.
 
Old 04-10-2015, 02:11 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Nancy of Chatsworth View Post
I'm dating a younger guy and he has a strange fetish. He wants me to "mother" him. I'm not sure if this behavior is common among 20 something's? I'm about 12 years older than him and I find the behavior strange, but he gets so much pleasure from it.

Is this something I'm just not understanding?
Does he want you to change his diapers too? Diarrhea, dung, doo-doo, all the good bits?

Maybe you can buy him a giant pacifier? But, I'm sorry to say, I don't think they sell adult size swaddlers. Use your curtains.
 
Old 04-10-2015, 05:26 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Nancy of Chatsworth View Post
Well, there are some non-intimate things he likes me to do like fold his clothes and read to him, but he also likes to attach himself while we watch tv or a movie. He also enjoys being fed.

For me, it's liberating because he's a really sweet guy and I admire him. It's just so bizarre sometimes how much he gets into character.
Thanks for explaining.

Many people have lifestyles that directly relate to their upbringing.

I'm sorry but he needs to work through what is making him do this. Some professional help would be a good suggestion for him.
 
Old 04-10-2015, 02:27 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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lol

Is this not the very definition of mommy issues?
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