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Some things are quite important when it comes to a serious LTR and should simply not be overlooked or compromised under any circumstances in my opinion.
If a person I was dating had any of the above issues it would be a deal breaker.
You are playing a dangerous game if you choose to be with someone that has any of those problems.
My mom is dating a man now (been for a awhile and will probably marry him) that would most likely have a few of those things checked off, and she is simply too enamored to acknowledge it or she thinks he can change. It makes me want to pull my hair out. Not smart be "hoping someone changes".
I have come to terms with it though. Its her life and she will have to deal with the consequences for making poor decisions.
Anyways, what are you guy's thoughts on these big "red flags"? Have different ones? Think these are on point?
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I agree with those. I think the money issue may actually be corrected IF, the other person is very responsible with money AND if the irresponsible person can admit their issue and relinquish full financial control over to the other person.
Both my husband and I are pretty good with money, but I am the one in charge of it. I pay all the bills, shop for food and supples, know the balance... My husband doesn't inquire much cause he trusts my abilities and we've never had an issue.
I agree with those. I think the money issue may actually be corrected IF, the other person is very responsible with money AND if the irresponsible person can admit their issue and relinquish full financial control over to the other person.
Both my husband and I are pretty good with money, but I am the one in charge of it. I pay all the bills, shop for food and supples, know the balance... My husband doesn't inquire much cause he trusts my abilities and we've never had an issue.
It can be corrected , but i do not think I would risk it.
Everyone has different dating red flags. Some red flags you may list may not be someone else's red flags. Eh, I have my own but I've listed them before somewhere...
This guy described it as "chivalry" but it was anything but. Beware of any guy who needs to make you feel small/weak/powerless in order to make him feel good about himself. That's not chivalry, it's misogyny.
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