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Before I elaborate, I would like to state that I am not seeking advice as to whether or not I should get in touch with him. This is my choice and I would kindly ask you to respect that.
I met someone in 2013, we dated a bit then (2 weeks) then we stopped communicating. We dated again in early 2014, then stopped communicating.
It's been a year since we have spoken but I've been thinking of him a lot lately (I've dated other men since, I also moved cities so did he ...). I sort of want to get in touch with him through Facebook (since I no longer have his phone number).
How can I contact him "casually" without making it seem as though I am "desperate"? Can anyone provide me with a small sample?
(Please, no comment regarding the fact that I will look "desperate" anyway, it's really not the point of this thread).
The above suggestions are good ones. Rarely can a "hello" be misconstrued as desperate. It would certainly help us to know the context of your prior dating and breakups. Also, what's your goal in contacting him?
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