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Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar
Not for me. I can be romantically interested in someone without knowing them well enough to have made a connection, i.e. I see them, I find them attractive and want to get to know them better, they feel the same, and we go from there.
Being romantically interested in someone you don't know is not at all the same as having a connection or chemistry. And neither are about emotions. I don't think you get that because you haven't had chemistry or felt connections.
I'm an only child, too. I'm very close with my parents (well, with my mother - I was close with my father, too, before he passed away), and I've always had lots of close friends. I've also had never had any problems with romantic relationships. Being an only child is not the issue.
Well, it sounds like maybe you were a more sociable and outgoing only child. I am not. And I certainly don't have your boobs which you've admitted haven't hurt you in the romance department.
Being romantically interested in someone you don't know is not at all the same as having a connection or chemistry. And neither are about emotions. I don't think you get that because you haven't had chemistry or felt connections.
Yes, it could be the connection that I have in mind is not the same kind that you have in mind. You've said before that finding someone attractive is not the same as being attracted to them, but it is the same thing to me.
Well, it sounds like maybe you were a more sociable and outgoing only child. I am not. And I certainly don't have your boobs which you've admitted haven't hurt you in the romance department.
Bwahahahah! Well, I went through some painfully shy phases - but overall, I'm very outgoing and sociable. I also do have big boobs.
Not for me. I can be romantically interested in someone without knowing them well enough to have made a connection, i.e. I see them, I find them attractive and want to get to know them better, they feel the same, and we go from there.
Yes, it could be the connection that I have in mind is not the same kind that you have in mind. You've said before that finding someone attractive is not the same as being attracted to them, but it is the same thing to me.
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Originally Posted by Lafleur
That's not romance, that's called lust.
Exactly. And relationships that are only based on lust probably aren't going to last.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Yes, it could be the connection that I have in mind is not the same kind that you have in mind. You've said before that finding someone attractive is not the same as being attracted to them, but it is the same thing to me.
Well it is impossible to have a connection with someone you don't know. That's for starters.
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I'm sure you have other great qualities too, but being outgoing and busty definitely helps.
