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Well I found out about the "ex" by the end of the night when I asked deeper questions and he eventually told me because his back was against the wall. He said that he didn't want to tell me because he knew how it would already go. And yes I'm not naive it really could be his girlfriend but I'm working on giving the benefit of the doubt because we've only been talking for a few days.
Why can't it really be an ex? …quite frankly I am hoping it's an ex he can't get rid of.
Keep the doubt and give up on the benefit of being with this guy which to me does not sound like much of a benefit at all.
Tell him when he gets the girlfriend completely out of his life and out of his home you "might" think about going out with him.
Also, quit kissing a man who has a live in girlfriend at this point all you are is someone for him to cheat on his girlfriend with.
Find someone without a "supposed ex girlfiend" living in his home.
By the way you are still quite naive if you actually believe she is an "ex". You can get rid of an ex out of your home but sometimes it has to be done legally with formal eviction etc, but it can be done.
You seem to be upset about the ex and excited about the new guy, not really knowing if you can trust him with the ex in the house.
I wouldn't hold it against him for now.
I just wouldn't take him as seriously until I see some actions being done. Otherwise, talk is cheap, and you don't wanna be a rebound chick.
Btw- IME, usually bad news when the ex is that close to the guy and living with him (usually the dude wants more). My ex gave me the same excuse about "My ex was suicidal blah blah b.s." You can also cut him to make life simple. I sure wish I did.
Forget about him. If it is an ex, at some point, you will be the ex in the house he can't get rid of. Guys don't leave until they have someone to go to. He's seeing if you are it.
I actually think your answers are quite appropriate, he's doubtlessly dealing with some serious drama right now so he's probably not ready for anything too soon. It doesn't sound like you are overly attached. Just don't jump in bed with him too soon and you will be fine.
I actually think your answers are quite appropriate, he's doubtlessly dealing with some serious drama right now so he's probably not ready for anything too soon. It doesn't sound like you are overly attached. Just don't jump in bed with him too soon and you will be fine.
That's the position I've come to the conclusion to Play... Really just "go with the flow"...have my "bail date" on when I've given him enough time and not sleep with him. It'll be interesting to see how this ends up a couple months from now.
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